Fellas, I feel like I've learned a lot about online dating this past week, so just thought I'd share a little:
Whatever site ur on, when u have the time go 'gung ho' on connecting- a wink, nudge, poke, however the site works. Don't even bother reading their profile if u think they're pretty, because they all describe themselves pretty much the same. Then send an email to a few random girls, preferably to girls that you consider 'out of your league' which in pua terms is, a good catch
In all honesty though, I've noticed most the girls on the site I'm on at least, are sociable, active, mid-professional girls that are looking for a genuine guy to meet. They have a sense of humor, and hold their guard, but are open because in general they have some reason for being on there: first they should be single, and probably don't have all the time in the world for 'mr. Right' or a good enough (pua) guy to come along, and they probably get hit on by enough AFC's in the bar life.
So what is a genuine (pua) guy? First of all, he's not needy. You might take 3 hours to respond again, or 3 days. Then if she responds, and gauges ur interest back in email, who knows u might respond in twenty minutes next time.
You (he) is funny, but not an insecure goofball. You will tease (flirt), and question their being, but you are not a judge.
You're adventurous, but you know your limits (which u won't mention yet) you have an active social life, but u also don't mind eating cheezballs on the couch
You don't compliment on looks, cuz that's just farkin AFC. If you've showed interest, then ya of course u thought her pic was cute
You don't straight up ask for a phone number, but you will lead her to the idea. You don't ask her to go to the movies, you subliminally plant date ideas in her head. She will encourage the idea if u string her along, and you won't wait forever either cuz u can be kinda farkin spontaneous
I'm in contact with about 5 girls right now, and have gone on one date; 2 weeks after I started this cheesy thing but after all, it's a convenience.
Looking at it, you can pickup girls, and keep them in proximity on your cell phone!
Your just a modern man, looking for a decent girl. It just so happens that the internet is another option in your backpocket
Just a little off my mind, cheers ya'll