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    Default Need help text response for "started seeing someone" reply - long distance

    Met a HB7 in a club in notts, number closed, and flirted through text gaming etc for a good 3 weeks. Think we hit comfort phase. all the sexual innuendo etc all via text. She lives far away from me. Would make a relationship difficult but was having alot of fun. Few weeks ago we luckily were in the same city clubbing, met her mates etc and she met mine. She was quite on it until then. Something switched during the session couldn't get her alone for a minute with her friends around, then something happened and she had to go. (Was tipsy things are lil blurry). She was thinking on a total relationship level talking to my friends saying she was not sure we're each others type etc. Unexpectedly bumped into her at shopping mall before leaving the city with her friends and said bye etc. After that had no communication from her. Thought I'd leave it to not look needy. 2weeks passed so sent the message...

    "I forgot, r we fighting... and most importantly am I winning?"

    HB7 Response: Lol no not fighting
    HB7 Response: ive just recently started seeing someone thats y i havent been in touch.

    How can I respond to that and still look good or keep things alive?

    Was thinking
    Text: "I Understand, 2 Boyfriends would be too much for you "

    Any ideas/better responses?

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    Default Re: Need help text response for "started seeing someone" reply - long dista

    Sound like someone beat you to the punch. Idk what advice to give you. :P

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    Default Re: Need help text response for "started seeing someone" reply - long dista

    I think it's great she responded. Most women would just ignore. And I actually think you're response is great. In fact I think you should keep flirting. If they JUST started getting together then you can still pull her away. It's in the begininng stages so if he makes a mistake she can easily write him off and all the while you two were talking so you can just pick it up from there.

    I've actually had an experience where a woman got an actual boyfriend within a week of us talking and I left it alone for about a week. Then after getting back in touch I had her talking about marrying me and wanting to meet up. Just be cautious and not have any expectations because they can turn around at any moment. If you have other women then this fluctuating behavior won't affect you and eventually you two will meet up after the other guy makes a mistake.

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    Default Re: Need help text response for "started seeing someone" reply - long dista

    Quote Originally Posted by BatMan View Post
    I think it's great she responded. Most women would just ignore. And I actually think you're response is great. In fact I think you should keep flirting. If they JUST started getting together then you can still pull her away. It's in the begininng stages so if he makes a mistake she can easily write him off and all the while you two were talking so you can just pick it up from there.

    I've actually had an experience where a woman got an actual boyfriend within a week of us talking and I left it alone for about a week. Then after getting back in touch I had her talking about marrying me and wanting to meet up. Just be cautious and not have any expectations because they can turn around at any moment. If you have other women then this fluctuating behavior won't affect you and eventually you two will meet up after the other guy makes a mistake.
    Woot woot..Batman to the rescue. He always delivers the good stuff.

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    Default Re: Need help text response for "started seeing someone" reply - long dista

    Yeah was pretty kool she responded. I know my ex before would have blanked such a message. I will do that response. Keep it short and sweet. How would you go from there and keep it flirty? Leave some time, message like normal conversation, randomly message "miss me yet" after a while, etc?

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    Default Re: Need help text response for "started seeing someone" reply - long dista

    All good ideas. Keep it sporadic. Message her normally for a few days then disappear. You can re-engage with the "miss me yet" as long as your convo up to this point has been light and funny. I would even go as far as to make it a conspiracy and you two are having an affair. But I wouldn't push this idea too much. You rarely want her thinking about the other guy while talking to you.

    And the way I got the one woman to say she wanted to marry me was roleplaying. I'd tell her that she was awesome and we are getting married. Then I didn't like something and say we were divorced. Then when the conversation got alitte more serious between us I would state that "I think marriage is a lovely idea and would want one. But I don't think I'm built for it. I'm too complicated." And she actually said she was going to change my mind about it. This shows that I am a challenge. All while we both know she has a new bf. Then I would go back to playful banter and tease her. Push/pull is a lovely thing.

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    Default Re: Need help text response for "started seeing someone" reply - long dista

    Cheers Batman. Good stuff!

    What would be a better response:

    1) "I Understand, 2 Boyfriends would be too much for you "
    2) "BF Already, Oh I Understand... We'll keep it discrete "

    Any advice appreciated


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