I met this girl a few weeks ago. We had very a great first date that ended in sex. I had to leave for two weeks for training. We texted everyday including four phone calls. We couldn't wait to see each other... So I get back last Saturday. She said she had a family reunion to go to. I got her a gift and asked if she wanted to pick it up before she left. after she didn't respond to my last text i left her alone ....
She didn't respond so I texted her and shes at a local bar with friends.... This bugged me a lot. Yet I didn't respond in a negative way or tell her this. She had time to go out with friends but she didn't see me. That's why I was upset.
I ended up setting up a date for the next day....fathers day. Her dad is dead but she flakes on me saying she has family in town because her mother wants them to have dinner and soend rime together and has to cancel with two sad faces....first after that she had bad news and then after the excuse with one....I didn't respond until much later that night asking what time did she get off the next day.
She didn't respond. So today(Monday) I sent a text with an open ended response like "you're a great woman and I have to see you again. I know you've been busy...when you have time it will be a lot of fun to hang out again. I'm free most evenings this week. Let me know what day works best for you. "
What can I do to get her back or even texting me again. We had amazing conversations and thought we were on the same page... This is a huge surprise for her to flake on me when I got back. I'm feeling really messed up about it.