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    ridah28 is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Rate my POF Ridah28

    Lately I have been having a hard time meeting quality women on POF.

    I think due to the amount of options girls have in a big city such as the Scottsdale/Phoenix area, a lot have been very flaky on meeting up. I like to transition from private message to text to meetup pretty quickly, i'm not big on dragging on emails for 3-4 weeks, meeting up and finding out the girl is not at all what I thought she was.

    For first meetups I usually do something low key, such as coffee or a beer somewhere.

    I re-wrote my profile a few days ago and am trying a different approach. My goal with the re-written profile is to come across as choosy and help weed out girls that aren't serious about actually meeting up.

    My older profile was very generic and boring. Through browsing women's profiles I've noticed that most girls list a set of "credentials" you need to meet for them to want to write you back (even heavier set girls have some pretty inflated credentials). I'm wondering if having some "credentials" of my own would work?


    Since re-writing the profile, I've messaged about 5 girls without response. Before messaging any more and burning out some options, I'm wondering if I should tone it down a bit?


    I know for sure that the profile picture is the main determining factor in a woman writing back. Most messages I sent get clicked on and the girls do check out my profile. I probably have a 1/5 email to response ratio with my old profile (very generic, kinda boring).

    I'm wondering if the pics are the dealbreaker or the profile itself. I'd be curious to know how much weight does the content of the profile hold versus how attractive a girl finds you based on your pics.

    Comments and advice would be greatly appreciated.

    My POF ID is Ridah28 in the search, I'd post a link but I can't since haven't posted enough yet.

    Thanks in advance, Kevin

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    pwonager is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Rate my POF Ridah28

    Hey bro you forgot to include the link ! :P

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    ridah28 is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: Rate my POF Ridah28

    pof.com/member10807003.htm

    Not able to put links in yet, gave me an error when posting (need 150 posts before putting links)

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    ridah28 is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: Rate my POF Ridah28

    put www in front of link after pasting

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    pwonager is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Rate my POF Ridah28

    Nice profile, have you had a lot of sucess?

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    ridah28 is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: Rate my POF Ridah28

    Have had some success, mostly with 5-6's who have had pretty crappy personalities. A lot of these girls have been flaky and haven't been of much substance. Haven't really landed many 7+ girls (landed 1 HB8, didn't go past the first date). Looking to get into better shape and get some better pics on the profile.

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    Default Re: Rate my POF Ridah28

    I like your profile a couple things i would change/add the no car portion of your dealbreakers take it out. It limits your options greatly and from my experience most 20 somethings don't have one especially if they are going to college. I would get a little cocky about your motorcycle...all girls love motorcycles. Pictures I would change your first picture from the motorcycle one to the one with you on a balcony with some wicked scenery in the back, simply because i think it's a better picture of you. I would also add one or two pictures with a couple of girl friends you have. It will give the impression that you have options (even if they're good friends) you can think of those as your winggirls!

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    Default Re: Rate my POF Ridah28

    Oh and from my experience, they will base their opinion half on your message and half on your profile. For the message try to stand out. I've had success with these two approaches, "so you like x, y, and z...nope not buying. you sure your not some 40 year pervert in his basement just waiting to molest me?" the other one i sometimes go with is from this side...rather long winded but works 75% of the time...just find 'best message ever'

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    ridah28 is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: Rate my POF Ridah28

    Thanks brewface, i'll try those suggestions out.
    Hard work equals hard bodied sexy women in your life. Picking up women = putting in the time and effort go get good at it. Most naturals have put in this time and effort without it appearing as time and effort to them!

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    Default Re: Rate my POF Ridah28

    Hey,

    I am also in the Phoenix area. You are limiting your options with your profile. You said you don't want women who are looking for friends, hang out and email. I have met many women who had those options selected and slept with them. You should not have a laundry list of deal breakers. I would focus more on your qualities that will attract a woman. Download imacros and you can open the 'meet me' option and run imacros program 500 times. It will tell 500 women that you are interested. There will be women that you are not interested in. It will bring anTON o traffic to your profile!!! Also, add/delete things on your profile every other day to keep your profile active.*

    Best,
    Marcus


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