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    Default Girl is not texting back at all. I can't figure this out.

    I met a girl on Friday night at a bar. Cute looking dark haired girl too. She was at least an 8 rating. I sent her a text while I was at the bar while I was hanging out with some friends. The next morning, she sent me a text back at around 9 am in the morning.

    The conversation started with some rapport. What's weird is she started off by by saying she doesn't like going to bars because most of the people who go there are loud and obnoxious besides complaining on why she was still awake that morning. Lol! But we talked talking about video games for a bit. She likes books too, but I'm not a book reading kind of guy. Lol! But I think I made a couple of mistakes. When she brought up a book, I thought she was talking about a video game.

    The last time I heard from her was at 1 pm on Saturday. This is how it pretty much ended.

    Me: Hey. I want to ask you out. Are you doing anything today?

    Her: Sorry. I fell asleep. Lol!


    I did respond back to this, but I forgot what I said. Lol! But this is what's got me farked up. Since then, I got nothing but dead air. the last time I sent a text was today at 3:43 pm. Still no response. I sent her this message.

    Me: *Poke* Hey (her name). How was your weekend?

    What happened? What did I do wrong? Just to say if I wanted to keep her around, is there a way I can recover from this?
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    Default Re: Girl is not texting back at all. I can't figure this out.

    Oh shit. Well, I know the answer now. This is pretty much what she said to me.

    Her: Sorry I lost my charger! I worked all weekend. But I can't go out with you. I am seeing someone at the moment. I guess guys who you meet don't expect to be friends. I'm sorry. You seem interesting.

    Me: If you're seeing someone, then why did you ask for my number at the bar?

    Hmmmmm....I'm assuming something doesn't sound right from what she said in her text, which is why I made the response I made to her. Tell me what you guys think.
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    Default Re: Girl is not texting back at all. I can't figure this out.

    Well I can see how you might get attached too quickly to this girl, an 8 that can talk video games is a rare find. You probably shouldn't have been talking video games though. Personally I'd approach this using the tactics PUAs have written on getting out of the friendzone because I think she's already put you there but I wouldn't waste much time and just move on if she isn't responding to them.

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    Default Re: Girl is not texting back at all. I can't figure this out.

    Quote Originally Posted by Vhailor View Post
    Well I can see how you might get attached too quickly to this girl, an 8 that can talk video games is a rare find. You probably shouldn't have been talking video games though. Personally I'd approach this using the tactics PUAs have written on getting out of the friendzone because I think she's already put you there but I wouldn't waste much time and just move on if she isn't responding to them.

    Did you see the reply I posted on this thread? She responded, but I just don't get it. It almost sounds like she's kind of giving me mixed signals. At least that's the impression I took when I read her last text. Lol!
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    Default Re: Girl is not texting back at all. I can't figure this out.

    Quote Originally Posted by MoonlightHaven View Post
    Did you see the reply I posted on this thread? She responded, but I just don't get it. It almost sounds like she's kind of giving me mixed signals. At least that's the impression I took when I read her last text. Lol!
    Her last comment was the one I was referring to, it just seems to me she's cleared out a spot for you in her friendzone and sticking out the bait. I think her saying "...at the moment" and "you seem interesting" in this context are to lure you in with false hope while she gains an ego-boosting orbiter. Obviously I could be wrong and somone else needs to chime in here but this mixed signals crap is what I've gotten before from girls in my AFC past, just saying. I wish I'd stumbled onto these sites back then.

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    Default Re: Girl is not texting back at all. I can't figure this out.

    Well since you don't know her current state with her bf I say just go for the buddy thing. Not so much friend.....you don't want her talking about her relationship issues with you. But someone she knows she can hang out with. Never underestimate the power of a female friend. They can introduce you to their friends who are sometimes more attractive. Then if her and her bf don't work out you will be the first to know and reap the benefits.

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    Default Re: Girl is not texting back at all. I can't figure this out.

    "Then if her and her bf don't work out you will be the first to know and reap the benefits."
    That is awesome, and so true. I've been getting closer with my long term female friends lately. Never know who they'll introduce me to

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    Default Re: Girl is not texting back at all. I can't figure this out.

    Thanks guys. So far everyone I've asked has told me it sounds like she wants someone on the side. In fact that was the impression I had. She hasn't come around yet. Whether she does or not, it's cool. I'm still talking to other girls anyways, but that's my secret. Lol!
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    Default Re: Girl is not texting back at all. I can't figure this out.

    Quote Originally Posted by MoonlightHaven View Post
    Me: If you're seeing someone, then why did you ask for my number at the bar?
    This was a bad move by the way, she kind of sh!t tested you, and you fell right into it

    You could have used the good ol' "yes ladder" to get to hang out anyway, and then some bf destroyer stuff (if that's your thing)

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    Default Re: Girl is not texting back at all. I can't figure this out.

    The way u phrased asking her out was weak too...

    Tell em don't ask em...always be ready for a shit test!


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