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    Default New Girl pulled a fast one

    I met this HB8 at a Club last weekend and we hit it off great as I described in the Pick Up field report. I am waiting 4 days to contact her. Normally I can't even bare to wait a day but I haven't contacted her yet since meeting her and it's been almost 2 days. So here is my ploy for texting her wanted some thoughts and opinions to maybe improve my text game.

    A little background story me and this girl were vibing hardcore and I got her number. Later she started dancing with some other guy and making out with him. This didn't phase me because she came alone and doesn't have a bf. I wasn't bothered by it because I know that she was playing the jealousy card.

    From my past experiences I have seen a girl I liked pull this one before in the past when we went to a bar together for our Day 2. My past Day 2 date started dancing and grinding with some other guy when she came with me. I was pissed and stormed off. Well I sent her a bunch of pissy texts later that night and we tore each other a new one. She was like "No I was just dancing, I didn't even like him."


    So I know this new girl is probably pulling the same stunt. She probably wants to see how far she can take it or see if it will piss me off. Cloud be a fitness test maybe as well I don't know... I played it low key and did nothing about it just kept doing my thing and didn't react to it. (But contracted a bit of oneitis and stop macking) NOOOO! I really regret not macking on a HB9 due to a stroke of oneitis.

    Well since this new girl obviously displayed an IOD I was not going to text her anything simply flirty obvisiously since that will demonstrate weakness since she was all up on some other guy and I will appear desperate. So I was going to bust her balls and call her on it.

    Here's my thought for my first text after our initial interaction.

    "Hey sexy biznatch! I think we really hit it off but maybe we should just be friends. I mean you failed to prove yourself and I don't trust you. But we can still see each other by the way. Later hot babe!"

    What do you guys think? As Mystery says to "freeze them out" when they display LMR or IOD. So this is my strategy to freeze her out by pretending to be friends w/her which is like cutting her off and should stir up some emotions from her. Is this a good text approach to this situation?

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    Default Re: New Girl pulled a fast one

    It's high risk when you've only just met - I'd just ask her out straight up somewhere fun involving food or dance and if she plays games ignore her. Enjoy yourself. Never get angry. If a girl I was with dirty danced with another guy I would simply walk out of the club and go somewhere else. If you are sure she's testing you then she likes you and will contact again.

    By saying 'hey sexy.... We really hit it off but we should just be friends' your stating a lot of ambiguity. Your openly stating you think she's sexy and you had a good time but are trying a weak let's be friends test. Better to not say much at all on a girl like this. I personally wouldnt say anything about her failing to prove her self or not trusting her. If she really had failed you wouldnt be texting her at all. Act like you've almost forgotten about last weekend and you're on to new exciting things. You need to move on in your life and concentrate on the future. If she wants a part of that she will subtly let you know. Send her an informal text to firstly see if she will respond and chat with you - find out what she's like outside of a clubs dynamic and perhaps call her by her name directly instead of 'sexy biznatch'. It might encourage her to be more serious. Then ask her out matter of factly and work on some plan B's in case she flakes. She's dancing with many guys, you need to do the same. Ask her out dancing again with friends or where she knows you will go anyway even if she says no. 'I'm going to vegas', 'I'm going to see the rolling stones', 'were going to a new club - the DJ is sick' 'I'm going to try out this new restaurant - it has the most delicious food and epic deserts'. That way it's no big deal if she can't make it, but you have already seeded that you are off to have extreme fun anyway. Some girls unfortunately purposely seek out a guy who will be their puppet so a wild card option is to position yourself as exactly that type of guy on purpose, if it gets you laid. I don't know if such a flighty girl is good LTR material so you have to work out exactly what you want her for and create a strategy around that. Less is often more. Keep whatever you say short and sweet until she opens up more.

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    Default Re: New Girl pulled a fast one

    Yup, don't take that. Too direct. The content is ok, but the form is just wrong. You are almost sending her "ioi! IOD IOD. IOD neg. Neg. IOI!" haha

    So just don't send that. As for what to send, WD above has as always great advice

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    Default Re: New Girl pulled a fast one

    Yeah I texted her after waiting 3 days. She still hasn't replied though imagine that! Yeah but whether she was dancing with some other guy or not and whether we did a K-close or not I think the outcome would have been the same. I am going to try to step up my game and now bounce these females somewhere real quick to Isolate and try to get some small talk going. Maybe that will help in getting me calls/texts back? Who knows....

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    Default Re: New Girl pulled a fast one

    why dont you create a jealousy plot line and also you can dhv more and after that if it still doesnt go right you can use her as a pivite

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    Default Re: New Girl pulled a fast one

    Awesome post whitedragon, very informative.

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    Default Re: New Girl pulled a fast one

    Quote Originally Posted by LIL G View Post
    why dont you create a jealousy plot line and also you can dhv more and after that if it still doesnt go right you can use her as a pivite
    Well that's a very good point. The reason why is because I contracted oneitis and lost all my momentum. I will try this hopefully next time I get in this situation. And what is a "pivite"? DHV more could work but I didn't know what else to DHV myself...

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    Default Re: New Girl pulled a fast one

    Quote Originally Posted by mackdaddyjon View Post
    Well that's a very good point. The reason why is because I contracted oneitis and lost all my momentum. I will try this hopefully next time I get in this situation. And what is a "pivite"? dhv more could work but I didn't know what else to DHV myself...
    He meant a Pivot, kind of a wing woman


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