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    Default Re: Did I screw the things up?

    Would you give me some articles to read about such stuff because I still don't know what's the right thing to write to a girl or to say to her. I'm too nice and this screw everything up...

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    Default Re: Did I screw the things up?

    Quote Originally Posted by hbprince View Post
    Would you give me some articles to read about such stuff because I still don't know what's the right thing to write to a girl or to say to her. I'm too nice and this screw everything up...
    My friend there isnt just one article you need to read. There are many. Just click on the search link in the top right and read away at neg, ways to text a girl (essentially the same as facebook chat), and getting over oneitis. Basically anything you can find. I would say your first mistake was that in the very first day, or as what I am understanding, you have ever spoken to her you said we need to meet and your pretty and blah... Thats showing way to much interest. Seeing as you were the "50+" guy she has spoken to that day you probably came across the same as everyone else she has spoken to. Once she replied a NEG would have done well.

    At this point you need to read and practice. There is not much you can do to get her back at this point in my opinion. You have to take this as a learning experience and move on to the next one. Of course once your well researched.

    And just so Im clear, you dont only electronically approach women out of a lack of confidence or shyness right??? Because that is no way to practice solid game.

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    Default Re: Did I screw the things up?

    Yeah, I have a lack of confidence and that's the problem. I always find myself an excuse why I didn't approach a girl and there were so many situations I could use to talk to girls and I didn't use them. I really need a teacher about what to do in such situations because I actually block and if I like the girl, I can't say anything... The fortune bring me once to one of the prettiest girls in school and I talked to her showing no interest and it wasn't so hard, but I don't know why I can't do this again, I'm just scared maybe.

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    Default Re: Did I screw the things up?

    By the way I found a girl whom I liked very much in my school but she has reached the limit of friends in facebook and the only possibility is to approach her in school(but I got one day ) or to write her a message in facebook. So what should I write to her now and not to show interest so much ? And of course to make her write more because the situation is the same - many friends, many likes of pictures, many guys who tell her every day that she is beautiful and her Bitch Shield is very high...(I hope you will understand me but sometimes not everything can be translated to english the same way as it sounds in my language)

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    Default Re: Did I screw the things up?

    I think you've been given some great advice here, to be honest. I will offer one more to try and help you save it. This isn't guaranteed, but worth a shot.

    Firstly message her saying something like "Hey, I saw something that reminded me of you today..." When you say something like this, women tend to become interested and want to know what it was. I think it's because they want to know it was something good.

    If that doesn't work just say "You know, i thought there was more to you than this. You're beautiful, sure, but beauty is common, I thought you were different to the rest but I guess I was wrong, you'll just ignore someone because you thin you're better than them".

    Even if she continues to ignore you, at least you've ejected interactions on your terms.

    : GeMiNi :&

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    Default Re: Did I screw the things up?

    Quote Originally Posted by hbprince View Post
    By the way I found a girl whom I liked very much in my school but she has reached the limit of friends in facebook and the only possibility is to approach her in school(but I got one day ) or to write her a message in facebook. So what should I write to her now and not to show interest so much ? And of course to make her write more because the situation is the same - many friends, many likes of pictures, many guys who tell her every day that she is beautiful and her Bitch Shield is very high...(I hope you will understand me but sometimes not everything can be translated to english the same way as it sounds in my language)
    Dont worry about the translation. The idea of what your trying to say comes across mostly clear. Now the only question I have to this is; is this a new girl not the same girl you spoke of before?

    If it is a new girl, since you go to school with her you have that in common at least which is an opportunity to "bump" into her by accident. If you might have a class together this is also a plus.

    If I am understanding this translation correctly you have had the opportunity to approach her once which would means she should vaguely know who you are. The best way is not to Facebook message her as an initiator if your in such close proximity to her. The only time I would ever reccomend electronic means to initiante a pick up is if you have never met the person other than online.

    What you need to do is just approach her in person again. Come up with a good opener to use, then just follow the normal steps. I know easier said than done, but you wont ever build your confidence and success rate until you do it. So worst case scenario nothing comes of it but you had a great learning experience to build off of. Best case she takes the bait and you start a relationship with her. Either way it is a win win situation.

    If you can give me more details on your daily interaction in school with this girl I can help more. Information such as, do you have the same classes? Play on a sports team shes a cheer leader for? A locker near her? something along those lines that can make it easier to aid you in designing your approach.

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    Default Re: Did I screw the things up?

    The problem with this new girl is that we're graduating tomorrow and if I don't see her tomorrow, I won't see her the whole summer. She knows who I am(because I was getting the hardest shots in the volleyball game by jumping or running to get them, so she has definitely remembered who I am) but I'm not sure what she thinks because I've watched her actions two times and I don't know if she likes me or not. I didn't approach her that day because when the bell rang she ran away of class too fast. I don't have classes with her because she's two years younger. So could you tell me now if I see her tomorrow, what opener to use and if that doesn't happen, what to write to her when she has so many friends and so many guys trying to approach her all the time ?

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    Default Re: Did I screw the things up?

    Well, I pissed that chick off, definitely I'm posting the last conversation:
    Me: Hey, I saw something that reminded me of you today...
    HB:?
    What
    Me: One little cute rabbit, it was walking around, I don't know where it came from
    I will seek for a picture to see what I mean
    HB:
    Me: http://smeshen.com/files/images/bebe_zaiche.jpg
    Isn't it cute ? :P (no answer 4-5 minutes, before that she was writing in a few seconds)
    I'm gonna ask you a question
    HB: ?
    Me: If you were to be famous what would you like to be known for?(no answer 11 minutes)

    You know, i thought there was more to you than this. You're beautiful, sure, but beauty is common, I thought you were different to the rest but I guess I was wrong, you'll just ignore someone because you thin you're better than them
    HB: Look what nobody asked for your opinion, you don't know me so you can only shut up, I am the one who decides whom to converse with, so you can think whatever you want
    I told you in the beginning that I don't communicate with strangers
    Me: I'm just telling you what picture you create in the other people, you can decide after that
    HB: What other people, don't make me laugh, I got my own friends and so much well-known people so I am not interested what picture I create in the other people
    Don't piss me off, why do you write to me when you have such opinion about me despite you don't know me
    Me: I told you in the beginning that I want to see if your beauty matches your character well, so that's why I was interested in writing to you
    I wanted to see what's hidden under the mask, if you know what I mean
    HB: Nobody knows what's hidden under the mask and nobody won't understand if I don't decide to show him
    Pff God I don't know why I am still writing,so bye

    So that's it. The girl obviously didn't like me, she was writing because of politeness maybe(but we can't be sure about that too because she said that she doesn't write to strangers )
    I hope you will understand my translation. I am sorry if there are mistakes

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    Default Re: Did I screw the things up?

    Quote Originally Posted by hbprince View Post
    You know, i thought there was more to you than this. You're beautiful, sure, but beauty is common, I thought you were different to the rest but I guess I was wrong, you'll just ignore someone because you thin you're better than them
    This is just wrong; she doesn't answer so you tell her to fuck off an she is empty and fake? That's super AFC

    Also, you say too often that she is beautiful and stuff; one of the first rules is to never talk about their looks, like you don't notice or you don't care

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    Default Re: Did I screw the things up?

    I did what Gemini told me in the previous comment to do - I followed his advice and that was the result. But at least that thing showed that she wasn't interested at all and I was just going to lose my time trying to do sth that won't happen.


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