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    Infrared is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Cool 2nd online date- new girl

    Guys I have a date later with a girl I met online. We started joking back and forth maybe a couple weeks ago, and sometime last week I had her "migrate" to the cell phone lol. That worked well by the way, after a few good messages I said, 'well hey I don't know about you but it's cumbersome to chat with someone over email, let's migrate this chat to cell phones, send me your number and I'll text you back'
    And she sent it.
    Anyways we started text game, more inside jokes, I even talked to her on the phone for a couple of 30 minute intervals or so. I didn't want to do that, but I think it actually built a lot of rapport and comfort time, u know like if I can hold a convo, then I'm alright lol.

    Skippin to it, we planned a date last nite for today. I have been leading text game convo, and I led the plans for this date as well. The cougar I met online a few weeks ago met me at a bar, then we Bounced for some mini-bowling, but I felt like that date didn't have enough fun/activities rolled into it. I haven't talked to her much since.. but different story.

    One of the AFC traits I still carry a little, is planning a freakin date! That's the point of this thread. I hate planning dates lol, I guess I always worry about logistics, wat to do, where to meet, etc.
    I'd usually just prefer for the girl to meet me and my friends for a night out, but not always sure about that, depending on how/where u meet.

    This girl, as opposed to the cougar I met before, is quite a bit younger. I'm 28, she's 21.
    Don't think that I've ever really dated a girl that much younger than me, but it's cool.
    I told her we would meet at a restaurant/bar place, then go to a concert nearby.
    She lives pretty close to me, so just trying to find something inbetween.

    I'm still worrying about the setup, cause I still do, so any tips or advice for a date?
    Thanks y'all

    Game on..

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    Default Re: 2nd online date- new girl

    Hey Infrared,

    Thought I would share what I like to do on dates. Online dates in particular. So There's this sort of downtown area I live by and invite her for coffee. Easy enough right? I tease the hell out of her and start Kino as soon as possible at the coffee shop then bounce to Barnes and Noble. I tease her some more and go to the self help section and be like, "oh look here's a book for you"! or go to the Religious section and be like, "honey you need Jesus." And I also like to swing by the magazine section and tell her I like to look at the latest Cosmo (jokingly). We end up reading all the sex facts so it turns things a little more sexual. Then we bounce again to Crate and Barrel where we role play like were married and shopping for furniture and talk/kino/tease more. I like it as a first date because it's during the day and I can build a TON of comfort and Kino relatively quickly.

    Stay Classy

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    Default Re: 2nd online date- new girl

    Haha thanks Verge, that's quite the kicker.
    U know I never used to do many coffee dates but it always is mentioned to me on here now.. I always thought it's cheesy but I guess it's the most casual/legit point to start from or whatever.

    By the way, how do u get day dates? I mean I could do that all the time in college from meeting girls there, but now I work shifts, with days off still, but girls I meet now are usually random from friends or bars, online etc. Lol.

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    Default Re: 2nd online date- new girl

    I just meet up with them during the day on weekends. I don't like her having the mind set "oh hes taking me out at night just like EVERY other guy". Plus I hate the idea of going to a bar/club and leaving her for 2 minutes and already have Derek the douche hitting on her.

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    Default Re: 2nd online date- new girl

    Oh ya the weekend haha. Well cool man thanks, I'll try to work that into the mix a little more.
    Cheers

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    Default Re: 2nd online date- new girl

    Hey Infared,

    Just look at what Verge said, he takes them to coffee, then Barnes and Nobles, and then Crate and Barrel. Honestly these seem like places I would more likely take my sister to help move in to her new house then my date. But that's sort of the point I'm getting at. It really does not matter where you go on the date as long as you establish lots of Kino, and keep it joking and fun. I mean you could actually probably take a girl on a date to Walmart, but as long as you both have fun it really doesn't matter. Just remember to not over think it and just be yourself. I'm sure it'll turn out fine.
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    Default Re: 2nd online date- new girl

    Ha yea I see it's a little goofy but ya, u get the point it's just about having fun, and starting small/casual, is what I got from Verge.
    I'm sure Verge there doesn't do that on every date.. but it's something I'd do, probably more spontaneously than anything.

    I know now I just need to get away from the whole bar thing a bit, not totally but most the girls I've taken to bars I've met at bars, and most of them turned out to be flings, fluzies, whatever haha.

    Also though, I realized girls should want to do the things u wanna do. If they don't then what the fark find someone who wants to go to football games, star wars conventions, arts fairs or something haha.

    It didn't come to life with the girl I met on here but it's all good, I met a girl through one of my 'pivots' last week who wants to meet me for a bike cruiser ride. Hell ya, that's something I'm down for

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    Default Re: 2nd online date- new girl

    Quote Originally Posted by Link777 View Post
    Hey Infared,

    Just look at what Verge said, he takes them to coffee, then Barnes and Nobles, and then Crate and Barrel. Honestly these seem like places I would more likely take my sister to help move in to her new house then my date. But that's sort of the point I'm getting at. It really does not matter where you go on the date as long as you establish lots of Kino, and keep it joking and fun. I mean you could actually probably take a girl on a date to Walmart, but as long as you both have fun it really doesn't matter. Just remember to not over think it and just be yourself. I'm sure it'll turn out fine.
    Link

    Ha ha! That made me laugh hella hard. But yes that's exactly what I'm getting at.


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