Watsup fellas? What's a good first date idea, besides a bar/restaurant? One of my aa traits is still just with that.. a museum? sounds ok. A zoo? sounds cheesy for first-time.. outside art expo? hmm..
I've gone on a couple dates lately and one wasn't for me, I wasn't for the other one lol.
I'll jump to it, I'm a poor date planner ha. I'm trying to get some response from a similar, different thread but I guess ya'll have been busy or something hhaha
This girl I met online I've been working a LOT of text game with, and we haven't met up yet. For one I was out of town the first weekend we started talking about hanging out. I think it's building Comfort, but I don't wanna become her text buddy either- matter of fact she's texting me right now I have spoke to her on the phone a few times to- "real-time phone attraction" or something haha.
The point is, last night we had a 'vague' date planned of going to a restaurant, then going to a new talent showcase at a bar/music venue. Bars- bad first date idea I know, unless you meet the girl at a bar. The freaking faux-paus about them.
So she initially flaked, and texted me back a little late. By that time I said 'fark it' and went out solo- I wanted to get some food, plus game on other girls to get over the problem a bit
But she kept texting me along the way like 'are you there yet'- umm, does that mean you wanna go? Is what I was thinking. 'Oh your on the train now, are their any weirdos' Normally I would've spurred some joke about that, she is funny, but I wasn't amused with her then and just said 'lol no not really, law abiding train folks'.
*Inside joke about monkeys in hats* and so on. I made text replies light-hearted, but short at this time since she was still showing interest, but wasn't just 'coming straight out with it'.
That's a bunch of the back log anyways. The deal is now, I don't want to ask her to a bar again, or a restaurant.. I want an interesting, but simple date. I think we have a lot in common, so I wanna be cool with her on the whole 'vibe' of the date.. but don't worry no one-itis here
This girls been eating out of my hands basically, but now I think she's either a little timid to meet me in person, or she might even be playing me for her own amusement (don't really think so, but I have to wonder)
Well the first paragraph of this post is the point lol, I just had to fume. Any good date ideas? After a 'bar date' flake?
Thanks, and peace!