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    evilraider13 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Need help f closign with this girl ive been hooking up with

    ive been hooking up with this girl for about four months now every other week or once every three weeks doing everything but sex. The last time we had our clothes off and i tried to move further but she stopped me and i asked her if she wanted to do it and she replied, "i do but i dont" so since then ive hooked up with her once and i have no idea how to get her to do it. I dont want to wait too long cause then the opportunity will slip. Any help would be appreciated

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    Default Re: Need help f closign with this girl ive been hooking up with

    I think she has lack of trust on you. So first thing you must do is try to gain is trust.

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    Default Re: Need help f closign with this girl ive been hooking up with

    Ronnytote may have a point. I am not sure what level of comfort or rapport you have with her, but you may need to build more of it.

    If you do have comfort (over a course of 4 months I hope you do) then you want to think about a Freeze Out. Basically you remove your attention and your touch. I prefer lowering my attention rather than completely remove it. I notice people are more bothered by someone being SHORT with them than giving them a cold shoulder like you are upset. Being short makes them confused if you are even upset because you're smiling, but not really interacting with them.

    Also try and change the dynamics between you two so that she sees YOU as the prize that SHE is trying to sleep with. Change this and you will have to literally push her off you because she will try to take off your pants lol. Hope this helps and good luck.


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