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    Malaprop is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default I need help with this girl

    Basically we used to have a class together back in high school and we really hit it off. We were really great friends, but I was too stupid to try and make a move. Now I regret it, but recently we've been texting, mostly small talk, but I am interested in becoming more than friends. I am still early in my approach, I just kinda hinted on meeting up. I want to know what to say from now on to gain the relationship status I want.

    I remember she did show signs of wanting to be more than friends, but as I said I never capitalized, at least I know I am capable of gaining her interest. I want to change our status from "just friends" to actually being together. If any of you can help me its greatly appreciated.

    If there is any extra information you would like to know I am happy to give it out as long as it doesn't include revealing the identities of those involved.

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    whitedragon is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: I need help with this girl

    One thing to try and program your mind is to consider your past with her not as failing to capitalize on a situation but that you were just off thinking about other girls back then. You had other things on your mind. Now as you and her have matured the time might be right. Some good ways to change a friend into a lover is to change the dynamic of your vocabulary and activities. Start writing different texts that are more romantically or sexually orientated. Start seeding yourself as a desirable boyfriend to have. Then work towards changing how you meet and do an activity together. Organize a casual meal that is in or near a romantic setting and steer it towards you being a new experience as well as familiar. She may be scared also of making a move because of the 'friendship'. You have to 100% change your intent towards her being your girlfriend. Be yourself but change your actions towards physically closing with her. If you don't make a move one of you two will eventually meet someone else anyway and you won't have the same friendship dynamic again. You hardly ever really have a friendship to loose by kissing or trying to sleep with her. You might get some LMR but I would just be persistent and don't sway from your goal. If she says 'but were just friends' you kiss her and say 'not anymore' or 'you know fine well we deserve to be more - our lips were made to kiss each other' and kiss her. 'I need time to think about it'. Cuddle her and stroke her Jair. She will kiss you eventually.

    Some good text questions - Ask her what her dream boyfriend is. Ask her if she is a good kisser. Ask her what's she's wearing. Ask her what her idea of a romantic date is. All those sorts of questions will give you a chance to seed yourself as the guy she needs to be doing all this with and will allow you to evaluate her flirtatious reactions before doing anything physical like Kino and kissing. If she responds well to your change in texting vocabulary she will probably date you formally (out to a drink or meal etc) if she does that she will kiss you and if she does that she will sleep with you. If you have been texting a while make a rapid move to meet her again in person and don't miss the opportunity second time around. Be 100% in your conviction.

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    Malaprop is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: I need help with this girl

    thanks, ill get right on it. i truly appreciate the help... thanks again


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