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    Default Coworker Asks for my number, she is switching shifts

    New Intern started working with us last week, I started gaming immediately. Teasing, touching, partners in crime, etc. . .I did not want to pounce on the new girl immediately, so I wanted to wait until the end of this week to close, then I find out starting next week, she will be on a completely different shift. Friday, I was talking to her (I did not get much time to talk to her this week) and said we should go out for breakfast, and she said we should, but she couldn't do it then b/c she had to get a hair cut, and told me to leave a note or something and let her know what's up. I took this as her gently letting me down, so we talked a bit longer and I had to leave to finish a project. I had never been rejected with that much positive body language, so it did feel sort of weird. Five minutes later, she walked all the way to the other side of the room to my department and asked for my number because we "Definitely need to hang." We talked for a good 10, 15 minutes, gossiping about workers, her telling me all of her friends at home (she's home from college) are boring Christians, and she needs someone to party with (I also go to college) I agreed and she kept walking through these "bad girl" qualifications." She said she had to go, and said she'd text me, as she walked away giggling.

    This was yesterday. It was not until I got to my car that morning that I realized I fucked up by not getting her number, and that she now has the power. My question is, surely she would not put that much investment into a new conversation if she had no intent of texting me, right? Normally, I'm more aggressive, and I make sure it really is "rejection," but because we work together I did not want to be too pushy. Thougths?

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    Default Re: Coworker Asks for my number, she is switching shifts

    I think your a tad over thinking it man. I don't you were rejected. She probably just had to switch shifts for another reason then you. Once she texts (which im almost 100 percent she will), just go back to alpha, hang out with her a bit, and then go for the f close. I sincerely doubt she would put in so much effort and show you that body language if she was just messing with you. Best of luck man
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    Default Re: Coworker Asks for my number, she is switching shifts

    Ha! I didn't mean to imply she switched shifts b/c of me, but rather, all of the interns switch shifts every so many weeks. I do sincerely appreciate the input. I guess I was just concerned her texting me would show a lack of assertiveness through her leading the interaction, but, I guess that's the whole "getting out of your head" part of game. That little gremlin of doubt that creeps in and goes over everything you've ever learned and slowly warps your brain, lol.

    We'll see, I don't normally get so in my head about things like this, but we all have a few that generally make us curious, plus the fact that I was comfortable with rejection before she resparked convo and decided we just "had" to hang out.

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    Default Re: Coworker Asks for my number, she is switching shifts

    Update, now that it's Sunday, and still no text, and seeing how she starts a different shift tomorrow, I am thinking about accidentally leaving my phone charger at work tomorrow, and coming back to get it during her shift. Even if she's busy, I will almost certainly rejog any attraction through the mere exposure effect and any convo will be filled with inside jokes/nick names etc. The question is, do I mention getting her number this time? Since she got my number Friday but for whatever reason did not contact me to give me her number. I don't want to wait too long and have the attraction die down. Any advice is always appreciated.

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    Default Re: Coworker Asks for my number, she is switching shifts

    I think that's a good call about the phone charger. What i would do is when you go back to work start talking and flirtin again for like 5 mins then say you have to go and say you guys should hang out sometime and then snag her number.

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    Default Re: Coworker Asks for my number, she is switching shifts

    Thanks, Link777, however, now a new obstacle has presented itself. I was talking to one of her coworkers, who is a fellow aPUA, and he mentioned that she would be shadowing someone away from the office today, but he looked up her number on the database and gave it to me. The issue is, I have her number without her giving it to me. She has not yet texted, there is a good chance I won't see her at work till God know's when, so, if it doesn't come across as too creepy or forward, I'd like to text her ASAP, using game straight out of the "Magnetic Messaging" book. The coworker agrees that I should text today, someone else advised waiting till tomorrow, but I really don't want attraction to fade.


    I have not talked to her since Friday, when she approached me after the convo ended, asked for my number, and disqualified all of her friends as "boring Christians" and told me about how she's dying to have somebody to party with. I should strike while the iron is hot, right, and just text her today? Something like "Hey [insert nick name here] I found the divine way to fix your ultimate lameness for working [insert new shift here]."


    Also, she is an intern, so I'm trying to be as forward as possible without coming across as too pushy. When I'm not flexing work game, I'm much more confident in my forwardness, lol.

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    Default Re: Coworker Asks for my number, she is switching shifts

    I'm not a total expert like Virgil or Cody or anyone like that , but I think it would be okay to text her. What is most important is that if you do, you must dhv and pretend like you could get any girl in the world, and Push Pull so when you stop texting and or hanging out with her she keeps coming back for more, and you don't get friendzoned or stepped on and used. If you do end up hanging out with her just take her to a sweet party, or do something really risky and exciting that her "lame christian friends" would never do and I bet she'll be all over you.

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    Default Re: Coworker Asks for my number, she is switching shifts

    Solid advice.


    The convo went something like this.

    I proposed hanging out

    She said it sounded fun

    I said tomorrow.

    She reciprocated two inside jokes and said she was busy this week so it would have to be on the weekend.

    I said we can do it Friday.

    She said to see how the week goes, because we have a ways to go.



    The level of her repeating and playing along with the jokes seemed to indicate some interest, but that last text kinda threw me off. I think I'll go dark as of now, and not text back. I feel like she would not have played along with everything if there wasn't some interest, but the hesitation at the end is curious. I suspect the playful insistence for Friday was received as a little too much push, and, because of the resistance, I'll pull back, and not text again tonight.

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    Default Re: Coworker Asks for my number, she is switching shifts

    What does she mean by how the week goes? Yeah man your supposed to push and then pull away before she resists so it makes you seem like your the catch, but it's whatever at this point. We are all here to learn and improve. I think right now you have 3 options. Either A. pursue this weekend and have the possibility of you getting with her, B. if you don't think you have established enough attraction yet and risk being friendzoned you can freeze her out, which basically means you don't talk to her for a while and try again later when you can establish more pre selection and put her more in a "seller Mindset". Or C. Just drop her and move onto the next pretty girl, because remember there are plenty of fish in the sea. Best of luck man keep me posted.
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    Default Re: Coworker Asks for my number, she is switching shifts

    As always, I appreciate the input. She said "Well, let's see how this week pans out! We still have a bit to go" I was trying to take Bobby Rio's advice as per "Magnetic Messaging" and when she said "no" to say "yes" with a smile, but I think I did push a bit too hard. I'll probably opt for option A, and go dark for a bit, and try to restablish a connection Friday. The worst that can happen is a "no," and we live and learn. Hopefully, I've planted the seed for Friday and have given her enough stimulation so that when I go dark the pleasure source is eliminated and there is a want for it, so when I bring up some inside jokes on Friday it reinitiates the pleasure and she's more apt to go for it.


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