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    Question Urgent help needed to move away from texting and being a friend.

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    I have been txting with this HB 7 for the past six months and we have met twice. We text on a regular basis just the other day she was complaining that I do not text her if she doesn't initiate a convo. I met her yesterday at a friends bbq [the 2nd time in six months] and on arrival she stood right next to me and said hie and we commented lightly on how we haven't seen each other in 6 months. The first tym I met her it was at a party and we where inseparable the whole night she was practically in love. So yesterday nothing much was said I built Kino and landed my hand on her lower back without objection [my friends threw me out of the car for this] . This meant she was comfortable with me but not sure if this signifies being in the dreaded friend zone. What need I do to shift the whole arrangement to a physical relationship.

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    Default Re: Urgent help needed to move away from texting and being a friend.

    From what I have gotten from your post it seems to me that you are a bit nervous about escalating with her, which is normal. This is possibliy due to you thinking you are in the friendzone which may be true.

    With that I want you to start seeing the situation alittle differently. I want you to ASSUME attraction from her. This way your behavior will filter through this Mindset and you will not be nervous about escalating because you KNOW she wants you. At the same time you don't want to be too aggressive with how you escalate. Use push/pull so you can escalate without resistance. (Even if you do it's a simple "step back" and try again later.)

    If you HAVE been nervous when interacting with her then you want to try and stay OUT of your head and get INTO hers. Pay attention to what her body language is saying to you.

    Theres and exercise you may want to try. Start looking at how she is interacting with you and compare it on the scale. Imagine a woman that is totally into you. How would she behave towards you? Then imagine a woman who wants nothing to do with you and pay attention to how she behaves. Try and put your friend on this scale and you will have a better idea of what she is thinking. Hope this helps and good luck.

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    Default Re: Urgent help needed to move away from texting and being a friend.

    Hey

    Just tried the break up text game after she failed to imagine the elements of the cube and it went a little sumthing like this..
    Me: Since u can't be good @ being imaginative I am breaking up with u
    Her: Ah [in shock]
    Me: Well I guess we're really over
    Her: But [name]
    Me: Actually I was angling for hot make-up
    sex,I guess that's out of the question since
    you caught me with the maid.
    Her: no ways I would probably catch sumthing from the maid.
    Her:So the maid was fun.
    Me: Had you been the maid do yu figure it would have been?
    Her: No ill neva be the maid
    Me: You will be?
    Her: Im fun way beyond a domestics workers level (halla).
    I am guessin this is a positive response and with more mastery of the lock key sequence we can move beyond texting. I have taken note of the other things you mentioned and will work on these.what are your views of the responses she gave..

    The-Pos

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    Default Re: Urgent help needed to move away from texting and being a friend.

    Haha I like that break up text game thing there.

    Her last reply def looks like an ioi, like she doesn't want u to think she is lame.

    Play off that a little, then change the subject at some point, not to drag it on a whole lot. That can be an inside joke to go back to anyways.

    I think u got her at the hook point, so escalate, push/pull, and get back out with her.. i'd say u can still avoid the friendzone here, by Assuming Attraction.

    Cheers and good luck bro


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