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    Smile Need help setting up a date with a girl through texting

    Hey guys! There is this girl (Pandora: Cinderella) who i havent seen for a year and then i suddenly met on the street a few days ago. The thing is that she was a friend of a girl I really liked a lot and with whom i completely screwed it up last year when i was a total AFC.
    So when i saw her on the street i acted really cool and she spent around 10 minutes talking to me and then i said i had to go. I think she got a good impression on the way i act now.
    Two days later i texted her on the whats up messenger in a cocky and funny way, and i won a bet against her on the EURO 2012 finale, so now she owes me a beer. So the thing is I want to use the escuse of getting my beer to set up a date and actually play my game on her. But the thing is i dont really know how to text her in a way to look cool and dont make her think im still the desperate guy i used to be last year. Also i would like to know how long should i wait before texting her. I thought of saying something like: "hey ladie. im really thirsty right now. didnt you owe me a beer haha" or something like that but im not really good in text game.
    Thanks. I appreciate all answers.

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    Default Re: Need help setting up a date with a girl through texting

    Hey Dennis,

    Watched the game last night. Was bloody fantastic!

    Bro', I think your line is fine - just cut out the "right now". I.e "hey ladie. im really thirsty. didnt you owe me a beer haha"

    Text soon, as the drink is based on the game. If you wait too long it will lose its impact.

    Hope this helps
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    Default Re: Need help setting up a date with a girl through texting

    Hey Bro! Thanks for your answer. The game was amazing. 4-0 haha. I will text her tomorrow then. Should I tell her the place and the time right after that? Or should I ask her when is she available?
    Thanks man!

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    Default Re: Need help setting up a date with a girl through texting

    Make a definitive plan first. If she is that interested she will tell you that she's unavailable and try to reschedule with you rather than let you figure out another time. If she doesn't take the opportunity to find out when you are both free then you may have to just build more attraction.

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    Default Re: Need help setting up a date with a girl through texting

    Thanks BatMan!
    So today I did what you guys said and then something unexpected happened. I texted her and directly after that i went with my friends to the movies. And before getting into the movie theater I heard someone calling my name and it was her. She seemed really nice and I said that by the way i texted her like 10 minutes ago and she said she didnt see the message. And then we spoke for a while and suddenly she said: By the way i owe you a beer, we should meet up. And I tried telling her to meet me on thursday afternoon at a local bar, but she said she is not sure yet if she can on thursday. then she was texting me when i was at the movies. So Im gonna try to make her confirm about thursday. Should I say im busy and i need to know in advance?

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    Default Re: Need help setting up a date with a girl through texting

    Dennis.

    I think you should wait on putting pressure on her to meet on thursday..remember she is buying she will probably want a day more convinient to her...I can already see ioi's dnt blow them.


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    Default Re: Need help setting up a date with a girl through texting

    i would say alright im going to ....... ill see you there

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    Default Re: Need help setting up a date with a girl through texting

    Allow her the space to chase you. She is making the plans so let her. I'm sure she won't flake. Things sound good man, give us an update.

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    Default Re: Need help setting up a date with a girl through texting

    Thanks guys!
    BatMan, by giving her space you mean I shouldnt text her tomorrow morning to see if we are meeting up in the evening? I mean i doubt she is gonna text me herself, but i also want her to chase me a bit as you said.

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    Default Re: Need help setting up a date with a girl through texting

    I didnt text her today but i replied to her tweet in which she was saying she was exhausted. I was like, "come on, you are on vacation" and she said that she had to walk a long way from one place to another. And i said like: "those two places are so close haha , but dont forget to bring some water with you next time", and she was like hahaha, shut up. The thing is i dont know when to text her and what to say, i dont want to press her into meeting up but i also dont want to have a boring convo without purpose


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