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    Default Do I text back?

    So Ive know this HB9 for a couple weeks and we've been texting crazy, and she said she really really digs me and I decide to use a Jealousy Plotline and now she says she's falling for me and shes going stop texting me for a while since she feels shes falling for me too fast because she has become jealous.

    So the thing is if she texts me back do I respond? Or wait for her to call instead. Since if i respond it seems that she is owning me and she can control when and when not to text me.

    What would you do?

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    Default Re: Do I text back?

    Quote Originally Posted by mikey2012 View Post
    So the thing is if she texts me back do I respond? Or wait for her to call instead. Since if i respond it seems that she is owning me and she can control when and when not to text me.
    IMO you are correct on her having power over you. I have encoutered this time and time again. She is giving you a Sh!t test in the form of a Freeze Out. Your best option is to wait for her to reinitiate contact. If she has fallen as hard as she says, she will. Dont fall for her trap this will be beta of you.

    Once contact is reinitiated hang out with her and take things to the next level. This will be a good window of opportuinity to do so. Easily turning her into an MLTR or your only relationship if thats what your shooting for.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sinister View Post
    IMO you are correct on her having power over you. I have encoutered this time and time again. She is giving you a Sh!t test in the form of a Freeze Out. Your best option is to wait for her to reinitiate contact. If she has fallen as hard as she says, she will. Dont fall for her trap this will be beta of you.

    Once contact is reinitiated hang out with her and take things to the next level. This will be a good window of opportuinity to do so. Easily turning her into an MLTR or your only relationship if thats what your shooting for.

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    Thanks Sinister
    But should I text her back even if she reinitiates or wait for her to call or communicate another way. It seems if I text her back I'm at her mercy and maybe she thinks Im checking my phone everyday for her texts.

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    Default Re: Do I text back?

    Personally I wouldn't text or call her until she does first, your right in saying you will hand her the power to use at her disposal.

    A good alpha trait is to not show you're not effected by her decision, although trying to make her jealous to start with wasn't a smart move in my personal opinion, especially if she was already into you, but if this is a sh!t test she'll be back in touch before you know it as soon as the realises the 'fear of loss'.

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    Default Re: Do I text back?

    Hey mikey2012,

    You're getting your balls squeezed. She basically is choosing when to text you? you're playing a reactive role here. You're asking : If she texts, what should I do?

    My personal choice here would be to text her now. You need to get back the power. Send out some bait via text and see if she responds.

    An Example: Something like, "fark me! You will not believe what just happened". If she responds, text again, "Hang on a sec, I think I should help..." then don't text back until she texts you etc

    Something like that brings all sorts of EMOTION and images to the mind. You can make something up that may be more appropriate, but you should try get back the control.

    Hope this helps
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    I guess if she dont text back..then fark her. Not my fault the [respectable woman] got jealous. She probably cant handle my game. Even if she texts me back I might not text back...leave her hanging..the [woman] deserves it, trying to play power game with me. Thanks anyways for your replies.
    Last edited by Virgil; 07-10-2012 at 05:43 AM.

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    Default Re: Do I text back?

    Quote Originally Posted by mikey2012 View Post
    I guess if she dont text back..then fark her. Not my fault the stupid biatch got jealous. She probably cant handle my game. Even if she texts me back I might not text back...leave her hanging..the biatch deserves it, trying to play power game with me. Thanks anyways for your replies.
    Well that sort of is the point of a jelousy plotline my friend. You kind of did this to yourself so the results are at your own fault. Fortunately for you, there are plenty of advisors here.

    As previously stated it is probably a Sh!t test. Now you can either try to bait her into talking to you. Or if she reinitiates before you manage to bait her, give it a few hours before you reply. Just dont try to make her jealous. Let her know you were aware of the text but were too busy to respond.

    The best option would be to bait her however because waiting can have bad results.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sinister View Post
    Well that sort of is the point of a jelousy plotline my friend. You kind of did this to yourself so the results are at your own fault. Fortunately for you, there are plenty of advisors here.

    As previously stated it is probably a Sh!t test. Now you can either try to bait her into talking to you. Or if she reinitiates before you manage to bait her, give it a few hours before you reply. Just dont try to make her jealous. Let her know you were aware of the text but were too busy to respond.

    The best option would be to bait her however because waiting can have bad results.
    Well the [woman] finally texts back and says "hi". I say "hi" after leaving it sometime, but after nearly a day .. i dont a get text back. I thought she wanted to reinitiate contact but I guess now I think she wants attention/validation since I haven't text her for a week she probably thinking what the hell is going on.
    Last edited by Virgil; 07-10-2012 at 05:44 AM.

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    Default Re: Do I text back?

    Mikey,

    You're a misogynist with zero respect for women and zero game. The moderators should have warned you already and i think it is a disgrace that they haven't.

    You need an education.
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    Default Re: Do I text back?

    Are you queer? Don't hijack my thread because you are striking out.
    I asked a reasonable question.


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