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    Default How to get her to respond

    I've been desparately trying to coax an HB9 into going out. I lost my nerve the first time I texted her last week and went all AFC on her and I'm trying to dig my way out of this hole. I'm trying to get any kind of communication from her but I dont have much to lose at this point. So I texted her today:

    Me: I dont like you anymore
    HB9: lol why not
    Me: Its not that I dont like you. its just...i dont like who youve become
    HB9: lol and what is that?
    Me: a monster
    Me: a sexy monster
    Her: lol nice save but why do u say that
    Me: idk I cant say it without sounding like a pussy
    Her: lol just say it

    I dropped the convo as the direction of it was making me look worse and worse but I'll use any angle i can at this point. But this was the most I've gotten out of her. How would I reinitiate with her now?

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    Default Re: How to get her to respond

    Quote Originally Posted by Rakehell View Post
    I've been desparately trying to coax an HB9 into going out. I lost my nerve the first time I texted her last week and went all AFC on her and I'm trying to dig my way out of this hole. I'm trying to get any kind of communication from her but I dont have much to lose at this point. So I texted her today:

    Me: I dont like you anymore
    HB9: lol why not
    Me: Its not that I dont like you. its just...i dont like who youve become
    HB9: lol and what is that?
    Me: a monster
    Me: a sexy monster
    Her: lol nice save but why do u say that
    Me: idk I cant say it without sounding like a pussy
    Her: lol just say it

    I dropped the convo as the direction of it was making me look worse and worse but I'll use any angle i can at this point. But this was the most I've gotten out of her. How would I reinitiate with her now?

    You might be riding that fence of blowing yourself out, but I don't think you've fallen off just yet.


    You could try something like, "I'm not sure if ur ready to know yet"
    Or... "I don't know, u sound a little too eager, maybe I can tell u later though..."

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    Rakehell is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: How to get her to respond

    Exactly. I'm down but not out.
    I moved on from the convo and never responded. I'll text her later in the week but I'm not sure how to reopen.

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    Default Re: How to get her to respond

    My guess is she will eventually figure out it was a desperate plot to get her attention with no success. Apologies if that was too harsh. I think you should act soon.

    You were decent in getting her intrigued about what you think of her, but maybe incorporating some genuine push/pull will change that. Something like...."The truth is....I think your awesome! But some things I saw tell me that I know we would be fighting all the time."

    Hope this helps and good luck.

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    Default Re: How to get her to respond

    Push/Pull isnt bad. Never tried it before but I guess I just did it unintentionally.

    What if I repopened with something like:

    Ok youre still my favorite but only sometimes

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    Default Re: How to get her to respond

    Quote Originally Posted by Rakehell View Post
    I've been desparately trying to coax an HB9 into going out. I lost my nerve the first time I texted her last week and went all AFC on her and I'm trying to dig my way out of this hole. I'm trying to get any kind of communication from her but I dont have much to lose at this point. So I texted her today:

    Me: I dont like you anymore
    HB9: lol why not
    Me: Its not that I dont like you. its just...i dont like who youve become
    HB9: lol and what is that?
    Me: a monster
    Me: a sexy monster
    Her: lol nice save but why do u say that
    Me: idk I cant say it without sounding like a pussy
    Her: lol just say it

    I dropped the convo as the direction of it was making me look worse and worse but I'll use any angle i can at this point. But this was the most I've gotten out of her. How would I reinitiate with her now?
    you can say something like this:if i tell you why ,then it will be like taking a thinking cap from a rocket scientist lol .or something alng the line to follow up with a push/pull
    make her want more and show her that she needs to earn your trust my friend.trust me on this you have nothing to lose

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    Default Re: How to get her to respond

    Update:
    So guess who called me later in the day. I must have done something right. I texted her again the same day of this thread and she didnt really respond but she called me later. Since then we've talked on the phone and texted a little. What I'll take from this is to show a little persistence without getting butthurt if I get rejected. Definitely shouldnt have lost my nerve in the beginning.


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