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    Default texting someone you know nothing about ?

    hey guys
    i was working at a school today (plumber) and there was a cute receptionist working i didnt say anything to her but just smiled.. i still dont feel comfertable in my own body around pretty chicks , but anyway .. im workin away and this teacher comes over to me and hands me a piece of paper with the receptionists number on it.. as im leavin i just kinda look at her and say bye , ( i wanted to be cooler but i just didnt know what to say ) ..this was at about 9am .. i thought f*ck it ill be smooth and wait till i finish work to text so i did.

    im kinda havin trouble with what my goal is with texting ? .. imean last week i met a girl kiss closed got her number and we were sendin big ass messages to each other, made plans to go out and then she just stopped messaging , probably because these texts were essays :S , the text is just to get a date right ? .. i was running texts like i was chatting face to face , wheres the line ?

    back to the story though, heres how the texting went

    me : hey there .. is this amy ? x

    her: hello yes it is x

    me:hi its jack (plumber) lol ..thought id say hii .. looked like you were havin a bad day before x ( she didnt but i thought this would start conversation)

    her: haha hi mr plumber! did i ? it was a little busy today .. did you fix the tap successfully ? x

    me: hey : ).. yeah you looked abit stressed, hah yeah course it is, id be a sh1t plumber if i jus turned up to do jobs didnt fix em and said bye hahax

    her:im on my own in the office atm so its abit stressful! yeah i remember you said bye, and i couldnt open the door:Pxx

    me: haha i no i didnt think you were letting me out at one stage.. much planned tonight ?

    her: i would never do such a thing ; ). just off to visit my friend in her new house , what about you ?

    me: ha alright ill let you off ; ) .. cool sounds fun, im jus off to the gym.. how long have you worked there btw i havnt seen you before

    her: iv worked there just over a year now : D, i dont think iv seen you before either. your very tall!! haha xx

    me: ha im very tall? am i ? lol .. must be the work boots ; ).. hows your friends house lookin ? ..out the gym now : ).. how old are you btw ? xx

    her: you are very tall. its actually not as nice as i thought it would be :P .. im 20 in 2 months, how old are you? xx

    me: haha is that a compliment ? .. ha is it good enough to throw parties in thats the main thing : D.. 20 in 2 months ?, im 24 in 7 months :P xx

    her:it is! having one on friday :P thats alright im 20 well before your 24, hows the gym?xx

    me: well thanks : D.. im out at 5th on saturday for my mates bday cant wait im on call one in every 4 weeks so iv not been out drinking this weekend:/..cant wait to get back on it : Dxx

    her: :O im actually going 5th for my friends bday , whose your friend ? xx

    me : hmm you sound like abit of a stalker haha .. my mates called josh ***** , same friend ?

    her : i assure you im no stalker, i get stalked bitch ! haha! my friends called ben, not the same friend xx

    me: yeah whatever, thats exactly what a stalker would say .. do you live near that school then ?

    her: ahhaaa you better watch out! i live past **** so kind of near when driving, what about you? xx

    me: baby faced stalker is your nickname now haha .. ahh right so no, nowhere near :P .. i live in ***** its nice .. not as posh as **** though xx

    her: do you think i have a baby face? should be very pretty baby face! :P driving home now so message me tomorrow if you like xx

    me: haha yeah a little bit.. you do look cute tho..yeah alright have a good nightxx

    her.. i can just about deal with being cute i think , going to bed now really tired spek to you soon xx

    me: half 9 bedtime? ..how old are you again ? haha alright speak to you soon


    sorry for this huge post guys im just unsure about how tht all went.. id love to know what im doing wrong and what you guys maybe wouldve done instead of me and also what my goal is with all this i mean, what do i do about asking her out or do i just meet up at weekend at the mutual venue and see what happens ? .. thanks for your time guys

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    Default Re: texting someone you know nothing about ?

    I'm sure some of us would have many opinions about your situation and text conversation. My suggestion would be to start exploring this forum and throughout the internet to get a foot into PUA. There are many things going on that giving a band-aid will not help your situation. Understand that you are learning so mistakes will happen, but you gain experience all along the way. Hope this helps and good luck.

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    Default Re: texting someone you know nothing about ?

    Hey first of all thanks for the reply .. And second , I wasn't really looking for what I should exactly say next I just wanted to know if I made Amy major errors , I havnt got a mentor and without someone pointing out where you went wrong with these things it's hard to know , I've read books and studied all sorts of the game .. Just wanted abit of direction . Also when's the best time to push for a date ? Or is there a best time ? .. What's a decent date close line ? .. Iv read you shouldn't really ask for one you should just kinda say your plans and subtley invite her with you ' I'm goin here at weekend, you should tag along' ... But what if you just want a date ? .. Cheers guys

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    Default Re: texting someone you know nothing about ?

    Just so you guys know I'm looking for abit of criticism .. Should I have took the conversation a different way in my texts or did I do great ? .. I kinda ask because I honestly don't know , I might've been too friendly or too teasing what do you guys think ?

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    Default Re: texting someone you know nothing about ?

    Oh I see...
    Well since she handed you her number (indirectly) you managed to skip alot of attraction steps which is fine. You are still incorporating teasing in your responses which is good and she is also investing in the conversation. I sense no resistance from her so you may be able to go straight to the meet up invite. It can be a one on one thing if you feel she has that must interest in you. If you notice any resistance you will just have to step back and incorporate some attraction material. But keep pushing til you hit a wall.

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    Default Re: texting someone you know nothing about ?

    you weren't that bad...you talked a lot more than you had to though. You should be building a little comfort, and then asking her to meet within a few messages not static texts over and over, you need to escalate.

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    Default Re: texting someone you know nothing about ?

    Thanks batman apprichiate the help , when you say I missed alot of attraction because of the indirect number , what could I have gone onto say ? .. I kinda just feel in my texts I'm always building comfort and not enough attraction , has anyone got any examples of how to do this ? .. I tried to put dhv's in my text such as goin to the gym and out at a party stuff like that but would live to know if iv got this all wrong an there's something I'm missing

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    Default Re: texting someone you know nothing about ?

    What I mean is that she is already interested so you don't have to do much with it. You can still maintain it and make sure it grows but she is already attracted. Hence she freely gave you her number. Just make sure to let her know that you are still challenging.....that you are also interested, but not quite sold yet.

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    Default Re: texting someone you know nothing about ?

    Alright buddy thanks for the help I'll try and escalate things for when we both go to the club on Saturday .. Iv just opened the texting up with " hey baby face ! .. How's it goin ? Xx "

    I'll let you guys know how it all works out thanks for the help

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    Default Re: texting someone you know nothing about ?

    u asked what we would have done so i wanted to give my two cents....

    when u were at the job it would have been very alpha if you would have talked to her then instead of telling her 'bye'....she was into you...u missed a great opportunity there....

    the texting....u probably texted her too much...and u let her end the conversation...check out the texting guide by gunslinger on here(i think)

    i wouldn't have asked her 'what she was doing that night'....if you're trying to hint around to meeting up/date with her be DIRECT and tell her.....

    you're were at the point where u could have set up a meet i think.....

    i agree w/ what BatMan was saying about reading up...seems like your success was more based on her being attracted to you/giving u her number than actual game...u were doing some things right though......

    hard to be perfect in these situations and hindsight is 20/20....u still got this man!!!

    keep us updated!

    and i think i missed the part about the 'club'....


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