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    Default Don't want to screw this one up. Next step?

    I am a rookie when it comes to pua and I don't consider myself to have good online game at all. So there is this girl I just messaged who is smoking hot and I used the "Bank Robbing" opener on her.

    Here is the conversation so far:

    Me: "Was thinking about robbing a bank but our getaway driver bailed on us. Would you be the getaway driver? If so, here is the plan: we will be driving the fastest cars for the escape. I hope you are a good driver because there will be an epic adrenaline filled cop chase. Failure is not an option. We will then drive off a cliff to fake our own deaths. We will then swim to our getaway place where we will bask in our new found fortune! Question is, you in? P.S. stay hydrated, pack lightly, and bring food because we will get hungry."

    Her: "No thanks officer"

    How should I respond to this? I was thinking about saying something like "That's okay. While you are bored at your house wondering what could have been, we will be buying yachts and islands" Something along those lines. What is the best recommendation?

    Thanks for the advice. Peace

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    Default Re: Don't want to screw this one up. Next step?

    Chewbacca,

    Doesn't seem like she's that receptive. Could be a shit test, but she didn't leave you with much to hang with. Perhaps wait a few days and then respond.

    Regards,

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    Default Re: Don't want to screw this one up. Next step?

    Just tease her and don't be to worry if you screw it up! If you care to much about screwing it up...then you will! To get the girl...shouldn't care if you get it or not. When girls sense that you will be happy with her or without her then she will want to be with you! As I say "to get a girl...you should constantly demonstrate your willingness to walk away"!

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    Default Re: Don't want to screw this one up. Next step?

    I think the problem might be that you over-explained the message. Too much information / not enough mystery; and not letting her imagination play the scenario out in her head.

    When sending texts or emails that are purposely ridiculous because you're being silly, you need to make them as quick & concise as possible.

    I can't remember which post I gave an example of a couple days ago, about this very same topic, so I'll whip up another / slightly different version of it now, so you can see an example of what I mean.

    You: "Heya speed racer, is your car tuned up & ready to rock?"

    (Whatever she says, really doesn't matter. All you're looking for is a response, indicating that you have her attention & she's curious.)

    Her: "What do you mean?" or "Why?" or maybe, "What are you talking about?" or "I don't know.."

    You: "I need someone with a lead foot to help me out with the PERFECT bank heist! I'll give you 5.67354% of the take.. "
    (make up some crazy random number for "her cut" AND be sure to put the winky face in there, so she knows you're being completely silly & joking around).

    But don't go into too much detail. Let HER picture it in her head.


    Now then, It's possible you could make a big recovery & play it off like you were actually going for the response that you got from her.

    Just off the top of my head, I personally would end up sending something like:
    "WOW! I'm even more impressed than before... I really admire a girl with scruples & who isn't afraid to speak up & has a great moral compass! You totally passed my "cool / honest girl test!!".


    Need one on one private coaching? PM me for details.

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    Default Re: Don't want to screw this one up. Next step?

    It's actually a good opener, but don't use "Question is, you in?", as a general rule you don't want any "yes/no" questions. Ask something like "where are we escaping to?" or "what is your secret skill that makes you the best partner in crime?"


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