Alright so I've been texting this girl for a little while that I met on OkCupid and things had been going great (getting along fine, she's cute, interesting and funny and thinks I am too, and I'm getting good vibes off of her) then when I started pushing a bit of sexual Tension I keep getting her pulling back...here's two examples:
Saying goodnight I threw in a little something as she was getting tired...
Me: I'm tired too so go get some sleep but try not to dream about me too much
Her: I can't dream about you if I've never met you, silly. I don't even know if you're worth dreaming about
Now I know she was kinda joking but I kinda felt that she was a bit put off by it...does the winky face mean she's just being sarcastic and joking around???
Both of us laying in bed watching TV and texting each other I said something about loving being in an air conditioned room cause I could get really comfy under my blankets...
Her: I love getting all cozy, I'm a cuddling champion
Me: You may think so but I would totally out-cuddle you any day haha
Her: Haha how would we compete in a cuddling competition?
Ughhhh I just don't get it...is this her way of trying to tell me to back off? Or is she saying these things so that I come onto her more???
If there are things I should have said or if you have any advice then please share it with me...