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    Parra is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Girl I blew things with getting warmer but still cold

    Basically to recap on an old thread- I met a girl that I made a really good first impression on, everything was going beautifully, we started dating etc. However, I made the mistake of not sleeping with her when I had the chance on the first date, I just thought it would spoil it if I rushed her to bed. She invited me out on another date despite this, and when I later made a move, she said she was tired, so I spent an awkward night in her bed in my pants and t shirt.

    The next day she blew off my attempts at arranging another meet, saying she had work to do, which contradicted what she said previously about being free all week.

    She stopped answering texts and contact in general, with the exception of one really enthusiastic text I got from her asking how I was which I found really strange.
    I gave up trying, and didn't ever hear from her. Probably a bad Idea, but I emailed her asking if I'd done anything wrong, which she denied, saying she'd been busy with college work and would contact me in the next few weeks.

    She eventually got back in touch, and started adding Facebook pictures of us together like old times. She said we should catch up but when I tried to arrange something she didn't reply.

    I'm now in a position where I'm trying to set up another meet, but I feel like I only have one chance. She has a busier social life than me and whereas I was once her priority, I no longer am.

    I really don't want to lose this girl, she's the prettiest girl I've dated and I liked being round her a lot.

    Can anyone offer me any advice? The only contact option I have is through Facebook, so its hard to create attraction etc.

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    bluebomber is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Girl I blew things with getting warmer but still cold

    ok, you have let this girl into in your head and taken over. I know shes awesome and hot, but it sounds like you are just another guy that she just keeping around for some reason. I think the best way is to avoid her completely for the next little while, whenever she wants to hang out, say you are busy tonight or have a date (and actually have something to do or a date, you are not lying to her that way.) Then after a while, offer to meet her up and see what she says. If she says shes busy again, screw her and on to the next one. Take this with a grain of salt, someone more experienced should have a better way of doing it.

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    Parra is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Girl I blew things with getting warmer but still cold

    I've done the avoidance part I reckon I spent weeks not talking to her. Then when I initiated contact with her a few days ago, it turns out she's leaving the country for a week in a few days. I didn't try and set up a meet, but I basically said I'll see her when she's back. I think the convo went ok, I managed to raise it from one word answers to her talking to me properly, I sent her some creative material I've been working on, (I'm a producer) and she said it was good, I know she listened to it as well because she said specifically what she liked about it.

    It sucks that she was going on holiday because if she hadn't I could have set a day to meet that week. I'm basically in need of boosting my value on fb without posting pictures of myself with other women, that way she may think about seeing me again? I don't know really, any advice in that respect is welcome.


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