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Thread: "Normal" vs "Abnormal" texting game

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    Default "Normal" vs "Abnormal" texting game

    So recently I have been trying to improve my texting game. I have been using the information being provided here and other PUA schools of thought and in the PUA community. As of late I have noticed after meeting a new girl the "Anormal" immediate approach to my texting game hasn't been going well.

    What I mean is trying to to be funny and flirty immediately to prevent the girl from thinking I am boring or just predictable is backfiring and getting me no responses. What's odd is when I just be myself and use "Normal" approach to pick up in in my texting game it seems to generate more results. The girls may somehow think I am really weird coming off as too entertaining when I am making it too obvious that I like her by trying to make her laugh or win her affection through flirting.

    I now only think flirting and funny stuff in texting is okay when there is comfort there ie day 2's and stuff. I am going to be trying this too and will be posting my results hopefully very soon. I am going to try very standard approaches to my texting game by saying stupid things like "it was really nice meeting you, hope we get to do it again soon." Stuff like that at least it may not come off as some creepy new dude trying too hard to impress her or win her. I have noticed that when I actually try to do the whole funny/flirty texting approach I actually still become boring and predictible because I fall ito the pattern of using that stuff all the time!

    So I noticed myself always trying to woo the girl with words and be super cool which makes her think I am boring. I think I will seriously try this normal approach since at least it leaves room for me to surprise her later with funny/flirty stuff. What do you guys think with the funny/flirty approach immediately after meeting a girl? For me it has never worked.

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    Default Re: "Normal" vs "Abnormal" texting game

    Always just be yourself man. You wouldn't want to attract a woman who's not attracted to the real you..just like you wouldn't like a woman who you found out had been putting up a front the whole time. Do your thing brother
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    Default Re: "Normal" vs "Abnormal" texting game

    I understand what you mean to feel like you are trying to entertain her through texting because you feel like if you don't then you risk coming across as boring and she won't text you back.

    Telling her a really good roleplaying story or something interesting that happened to you in your day and the only response you get is "Lol nice/ok" can be gut wrenching and that's when you really notice that you are still trying too hard even after all you know about game. Sometimes simple is the way to go. But not casual such as "Hey how are you."

    What I find works really well is soundbites. Maybe even "textbites." New term? We'll see. They are essentially little texts that lead to a conclusion, but each texts sucks her deeper into wanting the conclusion. I've mentioned this before, but it's like getting into your favorite addicting tv show. They reveal things little by little in a way that keeps you in your chair for sometimes an hour. There is a classic one that usually works well and that's the "I think I saw your twin" opener. It usually gets really good responses and instantly gets you in a fun convo.

    Another one that I personally use and is even simpler than that is "Omg are you serious" followed by an "Are you always like that?" or a more sexual tone "Why do you do this to me."

    I even like to build anticipation for something like this....

    Me: Hey. There's this pic I want to send you. But it's really personal so you can't show anyone. (This is used when we have NEVER sexted before)

    Her: Ummm...ok?
    Her: Send it. I wanna see
    Her: No dirty pics!

    Me: It's a pic of me in the shower...

    Regardless of her answer I always send this cartoon guy with a big nose, shower cap, and brush who appears to be singing. They ALWAYS have a postive response.

    Her: Lmfao! You're stupid
    Her: Hahahah I love it!
    Her: Omg you scared me lol
    Her: Lmfao grrrr I hate you!

    And this doesn't come across that I am a "dancing monkey" because it would be a different effect if I did it all at once instead of building on it. You can even stretch it farther...

    Me: Hey there's this pic I want to send you blah blah
    Her: Lol ok
    Me: Wait...is there anyone around you?
    Her: No there isn't/ Yes there is
    Me: Oh. Well now I'm not sure to send it/ Oh well then I can't send it right now.
    (Also a good way to see if she is sexually comfortable with you yet)
    Her: No you can send it
    Her: Umm...ok?
    Her: You can if you want (classic)

    So try using shorter messages that create intrigue in each one. You can still get your roleplaying or entertaining stories across, but look less needy and/or desperate if you use textbites and timing. Hope this helps and good luck.

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    Default Re: "Normal" vs "Abnormal" texting game

    I think in much of my text game, I always try to push the girl away. I don't tend to TRY to be funny or TRY to impress. I tend to find ways that she SHOULD be offended or scared but express them in a playful manner. By using this way, her only choice is to fight my pushing and try to pull closer.

    eg.
    her " her, this is sally from POF"
    me "the cute one or the one with weird braces?"
    her "haha the cute one i guess"
    me "ohh * disappointed* are you open to getting bracelets for the success of our relationship"


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    me "you shouldn't give out your number to strangers. I could be a stalker for all you know! "
    her "hahah funny"
    me "No serious, can you text me your address. I just got this nice new camera!"
    her "omg your crazy lol"
    me "Lots of my photos turn out pretty good, I have got better over the years =D blah blah blah transition into anything here.......
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    Default Re: "Normal" vs "Abnormal" texting game

    Quote Originally Posted by BatMan View Post
    Another one that I personally use and is even simpler than that is "Omg are you serious" followed by an "Are you always like that?" or a more sexual tone "Why do you do this to me."
    I personally never consider anything sexual unless its DIRECTLY sexual or very implied!

    "Why do you do this to me".. could be taken as "your a tease" or "im confused over you" .. But i dont see any sexual relation there...

    A sexual tone would be:
    "OMG, r u serious? that makes me HOT n sexy!!"
    "Are you always like that? Because I *LOVE* naughty "
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    Default Re: "Normal" vs "Abnormal" texting game

    Lol well aren't YOU on a role MobileAe. I'm actually glad you said that. The vagueness of the texts is what I like to rely on. It allows her imagination to fill in the gaps to her liking. So if the convo is sexual she will take that text as such. If she made me upset then she will take it that way. The vagueness creates the intrigue which increases the chances she will respond.

    I don't necessarily like to imply that I am a stalker though. Its gets a laugh, but my goal is to sleep with her, not make her nervous. If anything I'll imply that SHE is a stalker, a BOT, or a man. Entertaining texts though nonetheless.

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    Default Re: "Normal" vs "Abnormal" texting game

    Quote Originally Posted by BatMan View Post
    Lol well aren't YOU on a role MobileAe. I'm actually glad you said that. The vagueness of the texts is what I like to rely on. It allows her imagination to fill in the gaps to her liking. So if the convo is sexual she will take that text as such. If she made me upset then she will take it that way. The vagueness creates the intrigue which increases the chances she will respond.

    I don't necessarily like to imply that I am a stalker though. Its gets a laugh, but my goal is to sleep with her, not make her nervous. If anything I'll imply that SHE is a stalker, a BOT, or a man. Entertaining texts though nonetheless.
    Avoiding the stalker issue or weird guy issue, means its on the back of everyones mind. With telling them im a stalker or axe murder, I can qualify the girls real quick. The ones thats are like HAHA, or SCARY LOL, they are jsut normal playful girls. The girls that reply "ohh i like that" .. "do you bring your rope or only axe".. then I can escalate them ASAP and closer quicker.

    Also a bigger reason I bring it up in this format, rather than blaming them as bein the bot stalker... If I blame them = they are defensive, when really I want them to be on the offense and come at me. Also I love to tell girls that I am bad, i do bad things, they would be embarrass to know what I do, that they are too shy for my style, that they are angels compared to what I like to do... This way they should always be expecting me to escalate to something MORE, and I never slide into the friendzone.. Either they are shy and not DTF at which point im not going to waste my time, or I qualify them and when we meet it closes quicker.

    point: I dont use it as a ice breaker to make her feel safe...I use it to escalate our conversations quicker!
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    Default Re: "Normal" vs "Abnormal" texting game

    If that works for you then I think that's great. Its about getting results that we want.

    Everyone has their own style and I'm the type of person that tries to respect that. I notice some of your posts and I must say you have great potential, but hinder yourself if a few different ways. Hope this helps and good luck.

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    Default Re: "Normal" vs "Abnormal" texting game

    Quote Originally Posted by BatMan View Post
    If that works for you then I think that's great. Its about getting results that we want.

    Everyone has their own style and I'm the type of person that tries to respect that. I notice some of your posts and I must say you have great potential, but hinder yourself if a few different ways. Hope this helps and good luck.
    Exactly. I agree...

    Tons of guys have good advice and lots of different styles work. Its about finding what works good with you, maybe being crazy and trying something new and just bascially improve. Everything I say is just my style, mine not be yours.. Hey no problem, take what you love, leave what you hate.. mix n match!

    Yes, I try to hinder myself in some situations.. I don't like to waste time sometimes. Very often I would prefer to blow out a girl ASAP than waste a my time seeing if she was interested... Last night was on the strip, ready to go home.. a girl walks by and I try to offend her to see if shes fun and playful or shy and typical.. So she just smacks my ass hard! and im like "ohh baby, do it again. but harder".. BAM again "yummy, lets go f*cking party" .. shes like "fu*k yaah!"... arm around her shoulder, jump in a taxi, make out, arrive club and the rest is history...

    point: indeed I don't mind "hindering" myself sometimes, But I just call it "Direct Qualifying" .. down to the point in 30seconds flat! Hey it doesnt work for 80% of girls, but those 20% are ready to go!
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