I know you guys are few and far between, but I also KNOW that you are here. I need your help.
I've met this girl who is truly great. No, it's not one-itis. I know a ridiculous amount of women and she actually is different, and I can justify that. I hope you guys know me well enough by now and trust me when I say that I've separated the concepts of one-itis/an infatuation from a girl who might be worth calling my only girlfriend. Here's why:
She only becomes more attractive the more I get to know her. A vast majority of women slowly disqualify themselves. Everything about her makes me want to spend time with her all the more. This also applies to her physical beauty. I find her physically more beautiful the more I see her. I don't tear her apart, and it's not a frame. It's just natural. She's not a 10, but I've never wanted that anyway. I hope you all understand the different between sexual attraction and sexual connection, because we connect, and that's sexy.
I'm afraid that if we go exclusive and break up, my inner frame will collapse. I haven't had one girlfriend in two years. So here's my question to you:
How do you protect (safety net) your frame (Mindset) while in a relationship with just one girl?