So I really don't post questions on my own situation. I like to think that I can handle most of them. But I also understand that I do not want to seem like an untouchable expert.The truth is I am simply a man with an opinion......that I still make mistakes myself and sometimes don't have the answer. I'm not interested in bragging rights and only post successful sarges. My interest is to help guide in any way I can. So with that I am giving back and asking YOU guys on a current situation I am in.
As some of you know I have been getting very heavily into understanding online dating. I am slowly wrapping my head around it and notice some things (such as dating sites have a different atmosphere compared to social Ex: Facebook, Myspace, Tagged etc.). But am far from perfecting it.
Theres an HB8 I have been messaging. Got her number and we were texting. She went cold only after day one. Figured it was something I said, but I didn't see any "deal breakers" in my text so after day 4 I deleted her number. Figured it may have been another guy or and ex. Happens all the time and you can't do anything about it. Now the alpha in me wanted to let it go for good, but the social scientist in me wanted to push and see where things went. So I went back to messaging her on the website POF. It was very casual "Hope your day is well" kinda of stuff with a joke or tease thrown in once in a while. Sometimes she would respond, sometimes not (I can tell when she reads the messages and she has read them all). So as a farewell type of thing I sent this to her...followed by her response.
Me: My apologies. Sometimes I get wrapped up in my own fun that I don't always catch a hint until really late lol. It's unfortunate though, I was really interested in getting to know each other better. Happy fishing hun
Her: Lol sorry I've been a little busy I thought I gave you my number anyways
I know this is a Sh1t Test since she is suppose to have my number and has never text me. So what are some of your ideas on how to respond?