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    Default Re: Good openers when emailing a girl? I need a little help to improve mor

    Hi Guys,

    Recently for online dating I've been using the line...

    "have you heard the joke about (insert something relevant here about her profile)?"

    So far its been getting 100% replies, from HB6 to HB9's. But make sure you have a good joke lined up otherwise you'll go down in flames.

    I'm still experimenting with the second message, will keep you updated.

    -TKO

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    Default Re: Good openers when emailing a girl? I need a little help to improve mor

    I've just got into this online dating business and I came across a profile for a HB8 that puts herself across as really shy. Shy people, in my experience, often have a side with crazy ideas and can hold really interesting conversations so I put together this opener based on the concept of cold reading that Style describes in The Game. So if you come across anybody whose profile makes them look shy go with something like this

    'Hey! I came across your profile and thought that you looked like a younger version of somebody I used to know!Looks and style, I find, are always a fairly good indicator of personality! So if you're anything like the person that I'm thinking of you're not half as quiet as your profile makes out! I bet you actually have some really interesting thoughts and ideas and have a bit of a repressed wild side (or at least one that doesn't come across in your profile!).'

    I tried to put a neg in there with a younger version and the somebody I used to know bit is intended to dhv as it suggests that I used to know an older, more mature girl that looked like her, making her feel second best. The cold read part is more or less like the last opener that was posted. If it's a hot girl you could take educated guesses about the more hidden attributes of her personality such as talking about her education or something. Just don't go for the obvious ones like 'you're gorgeous' as I think these sites work like bars in that girls have their bitch shields in so try to fit as many tactics like negging and DHVing there like you would in night game. Overall I think that makes for a pretty solid opener. Thoughts?

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    Default Re: Good openers when emailing a girl? I need a little help to improve mor

    [QUOTE=tmalonetn;4614 2]Here's an email transcript I used yesterday on one of the "big" dating sites. The girl I wrote to I would consider a 9.5

    Anyway, the main thing is, you need to take each profile on a case by case basis. What works with one girl, may not work with the next.... so you can't use the exact approach with every girl.

    That said, here's what I sent her in my FIRST email, along with her response: (And after 3 email exchanges she gave me her number & we're meeting up tomorrow)

    *Also note that, she obviously looked over my profile... just as ALL women are going to do, so be sure to have a bangin profile put together!!
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    I wrote: SUBJECT LINE: "Hey Spunky Brewster!!!

    So, I'm reading your profile & you sound like a super-normal, regular next door neighbor sort of woman.
    However; your pictures capture an unmentioned quality about you...

    Something in your eyes, gives away the fact that you're a bit spunky/sassy. There's a more upbeat, playful, adventurous side that you didn't describe. But it's totally noticeable.
    (Just sayin')

    I'm Mark by the way.
    I hope your weened has been full of awesomeness!


    Thanks man this opener worked for me like magic.

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    Default Re: Good openers when emailing a girl? I need a little help to improve mor

    [QUOTE=dmazzy;50588]
    Quote Originally Posted by tmalonetn View Post
    Here's an email transcript I used yesterday on one of the "big" dating sites. The girl I wrote to I would consider a 9.5

    Anyway, the main thing is, you need to take each profile on a case by case basis. What works with one girl, may not work with the next.... so you can't use the exact approach with every girl.

    That said, here's what I sent her in my FIRST email, along with her response: (And after 3 email exchanges she gave me her number & we're meeting up tomorrow)

    *Also note that, she obviously looked over my profile... just as ALL women are going to do, so be sure to have a bangin profile put together!!
    ------------------------------------------------
    I wrote: SUBJECT LINE: "Hey Spunky Brewster!!!

    So, I'm reading your profile & you sound like a super-normal, regular next door neighbor sort of woman.
    However; your pictures capture an unmentioned quality about you...

    Something in your eyes, gives away the fact that you're a bit spunky/sassy. There's a more upbeat, playful, adventurous side that you didn't describe. But it's totally noticeable.
    (Just sayin')

    I'm Mark by the way.
    I hope your weened has been full of awesomeness!






    Thanks man this opener worked for me like magic.
    You're welcome!


    There are certain types of girls that respond really well with that one. Others not as much.
    But once you start to see a pattern & notice little clues to their different personality types, it becomes easier to figure out what might work the best.



    Need one on one private coaching? PM me for details.


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