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    Default Good openers when emailing a girl? I need a little help to improve more.

    So far what I've been doing with emails is a good start. However, for most 8, 9, and 10 girls is where I have trouble when sending an email. Most of the time I get no response at all from most cuter and hotter looking 8, 9, and 10 girls.

    With the practice I've been doing so far I've been picking up numbers. But I want to go further and improve my skills greatly as far as picking up cuter and hotter looking girls using emails in most social friends and dating sites. If possible, I thought maybe going straight to seduction would be the best way. But I want to know some good rejection proof openers that will work with emails. Feel free to post your suggestions away.
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    Default Re: Good openers when emailing a girl? I need a little help to improve mor

    Here's an email transcript I used yesterday on one of the "big" dating sites. The girl I wrote to I would consider a 9.5

    Anyway, the main thing is, you need to take each profile on a case by case basis. What works with one girl, may not work with the next.... so you can't use the exact approach with every girl.

    That said, here's what I sent her in my FIRST email, along with her response: (And after 3 email exchanges she gave me her number & we're meeting up tomorrow)

    *Also note that, she obviously looked over my profile... just as ALL women are going to do, so be sure to have a bangin profile put together!!
    ------------------------------------------------
    I wrote: SUBJECT LINE: "Hey Spunky Brewster!!!

    So, I'm reading your profile & you sound like a super-normal, regular next door neighbor sort of woman.
    However; your pictures capture an unmentioned quality about you...

    Something in your eyes, gives away the fact that you're a bit spunky/sassy. There's a more upbeat, playful, adventurous side that you didn't describe. But it's totally noticeable.
    (Just sayin')

    I'm Mark by the way.
    I hope your weened has been full of awesomeness!


    **Her Reply**

    RE:Hey Spunky-Brewster!!!
    100%, without out a doubt, the most fantabulous email i have ever gotten!!!!!
    And.... Just maybe.... I might have a little spunk in me!!
    A man that has or is going to read 50 shades.... Yep.. I will say that that too is a plus!
    I am actually anxious to get your next email!!
    Btw.... Im Kellie


    ------------------------------------------------------------

    The BIGGEST thing to remember when emailing SMOKIN' HOT girls is, DO NOT blend in with the 100's of other schmucks who are writing her. Be original & creative.
    Show her you actually read her profile & noticed UNIQUE details about it, as well as her.

    Throw a small cold read into the mix, because chances are, nobody else is doing it, and she'll be excited that you're different than the rest of the "regular guys".

    Hope this gives a little insight to some of you fellow "online gamers" who may be struggling with the initial contact message.


    I'll also make new post & share another online opener I used a couple days ago; which had equally amazing results leading to getting her number / meeting up.
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    Default Re: Good openers when emailing a girl? I need a little help to improve mor

    tmalonetn,
    Do you wear a tuxedo 24/7? Because that has got to be one of the classiest emails I have ever read. VERY smooth.

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    Default Re: Good openers when emailing a girl? I need a little help to improve mor

    Quote Originally Posted by Verge View Post
    tmalonetn,
    Do you wear a tuxedo 24/7? Because that has got to be one of the classiest emails I have ever read. VERY smooth.
    LOL!! Thanks man.
    But no....
    I don't always wear a tuxedo.... but when I do, I drink Martinis, shaken not stirred.

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    Default Re: Good openers when emailing a girl? I need a little help to improve mor

    Wow! That is awesome! =D I did have a question though. For some sites, it is common that the girl doesn't fill anything out at all or her profile is only visible to friends. For sites like MySpace and MeetMe (used to be known as MyYearbook). Do you have a suggestion on what to do in this case if you wanted to email her?
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    Default Re: Good openers when emailing a girl? I need a little help to improve mor

    For "Dating Sites" beware of the profiles that only have: 1 photo, almost zero info, and the height preferences for her match are listed as 3'5" - 8'11".
    Those are generally fake profiles.

    But, as far as just not being able to get much info because they have their privacy settings set to "Friends only"....?
    That's tough because you don't have anything to go by, other than her looks; which is generally a bad idea to compliment them on.

    I personally haven't tried gaming that particular type of girl. But it might be a cool experiment...?
    ;o)

    Maybe someone else has some ideas on how to go about it.

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    Default Re: Good openers when emailing a girl? I need a little help to improve mor

    What about the part in your email about the picture? But only cutting out the part about her profile, pointing out to her that she didn't write a profile description, yet adding in something similar as far as what you wrote based on her looks? It's possible you could have come up with a new formula for girls who only have quite a few pics, but no profile description. Only making a slight change in the first part of the email.
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    Default Re: Good openers when emailing a girl? I need a little help to improve mor

    Quote Originally Posted by MoonlightHaven View Post
    What about the part in your email about the picture? But only cutting out the part about her profile, pointing out to her that she didn't write a profile description, yet adding in something similar as far as what you wrote based on her looks? It's possible you could have come up with a new formula for girls who only have quite a few pics, but no profile description. Only making a slight change in the first part of the email.
    Depending on the individual girl, you might be able to get her attention & interested if you're playful & do a little teasing/bantering with her.

    I've been using the whole "Your eyes give off a spunky / sassy / smarty pants vibe" thing with most of the women I've been messaging lately, and I've been having really good results so far.

    Just avoid the "You're so hot / beautiful / gorgeous / pretty, etc.." approach.

    I actually set up a "recon / woman's" profile on POF recently, just to get a real world look at how most guys approach & message women. It's ridiculous how many of them use those comments / compliments, when initiating contact!!

    I TOTALLY understand why women run on auto pilot, as far as keeping their guard up at first; because, with every new message, or every new approach by some guy, she's basically been conditioned to expect another lame, boring, uninteresting, needy opener.

    But you could try the playful tease comment about her photo, and mention something like "You have such a devilish, prankster look about you; almost like your middle name could be mischief... "
    (Or some variation of that.)

    I just sent a couple emails this morning using that idea, but haven't had time to get responses yet.

    But, if you don't give it a shot at all, then you know for sure your chances are gonna be zero.

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    Default Re: Good openers when emailing a girl? I need a little help to improve mor

    Just say, wow I find you really attractive and would love to get to know you better.

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    Default Re: Good openers when emailing a girl? I need a little help to improve mor

    Quote Originally Posted by Gregg Burke View Post
    Just say, wow I find you really attractive and would love to get to know you better.
    Hey Gregg, You'd be surprised how many guys send messages that say that exact same thing...

    My "recon profile" has gotten hundreds & hundreds of messages and a lot of guys use that very line.
    It doesn't stand out at all, and kind of implies that she has a higher value than the guy messaging her.

    The key is, to make her want to get to know you better.


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