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    sam_tuler11 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Lightbulb Thinking of getting my gf a vibrator!?

    I'm currently in a relationship and we have great sex. We're both pretty adventurous sexually and have experimented with all sorts, eg tying up, blindfolds, anal play etc etc

    I was thinking of buying a bullet vibrator for us both to use and to tease her when she's tied up etc but have lots of thoughts racing through my.

    Also i'm going away for 2 months so it could kind of be like a gift to her to use in the meantime so she can still be sexually satisfied. I've been away before and we've had phone sex and she's used her toothbrush so i thought it could be great for phone/skype sex.

    I have a lot of thoughts racing through my mind and would appreciate some advice:

    1. Should it be mine or a gift to her?

    2. What if she uses the it so much when i'm away and prefers having "guaranteed" orgasms as opposed to me?

    3. What if she just uses it by herself the whole time - should i be ok with that? if not any ground rules i should make?

    4. Will it bring more problems than its worth?

    5. What if we enjoy using it so much it becomes part of our normal sex routine. Is this a legit thing to be concerned about??

    I would really would genuinley appreciate any advice or opinions.

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    Default Re: Thinking of getting my gf a vibrator!?

    Talk about it with her, ask her if she's into vibrators. If she is, then surprise her with one. When you are having sex sometime, secretly pull it out and use it on her. Nothing wrong if it's part of the normal sex routine, some girls are very sensitive and require lots of direct stimulation during sex. Some girls will rub themselves while you are penetrating them, nothing wrong with that. If she likes to use a vibrator, let her.
    Last edited by KristiBell; 07-08-2012 at 01:16 PM.

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    Default Re: Thinking of getting my gf a vibrator!?

    I can guarantee you that it will NOT be a replacement of any kind. It is an addition. You know why is called so many different things? (sex, farking, making love, intimacy etc.) Most of it is MENTAL stimulation. You have experimented before so maybe you had nights where she was the dominant one and other nights she was the submissive one. Any woman will tell you that the best sex is not because of the act itself, but the emotional part that goes with it. (and lots of foreplay to build up Tension) There is no emotion in a toy... Only her imagination at work. And we all know if our imagination was sufficient enough to give us pleasure then NO ONE would have sex unless to have children. Hope this helps and good luck.


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