Re: How do you respond when she talks about hot guys?
I just read this recently in a book with regards to female behavior. This could be a series of events but none the less it could be a shit test. Again clearly I don't know your lady so the answers could be many but one that is true till the end of time is that she will continue to test you just to see your reaction. In a sense it could be to see if you are a jealous male. She might want to see if you get protective but not overly protective. It could be a shit ton of things and they do this both consciously and unconsciously. If I were you I would play it off with either comedy or just flat out ignore it to show I'm not faced by it. Women will continue to find men they find attractive just like men do and this is something you need to accept. It is what it is you know? Now if she starts taking steps towards hooking up with a dude then you could do different things also, remind her who her man is and demolish her in bed (women like to be reminded that you are man, and she is woman), drop her and find another, and/or reevaluate your game because it could be a sign of you lacking somewhere. These are just my two thoughts from someone that has been married when I was a chode and I know first hand what not having your shit wired tight can do.
To my bros who served with me.
"When it comes your time to die, be not like those whose hearts are filled with the fear of death, so that when their time comes they weep and pray for a little more time to live their lives over again in a different way. Sing your death song and die like a hero going home.”