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    Post How do you respond when she talks about hot guys?

    So this is something I've been wondering for a while.
    It's not that it bothers me that a girl I'm seeing finds another guy attractive, I just don't know how I should respond in this situation.

    Here's an example scenario:
    You've been seeing this girl for a while, your at her house and she's on facebook. She points at a guy and says how hot he is and mentions that she always sees him around.

    How should/would you respond in this situation?

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    Default Re: How do you respond when she talks about hot guys?

    Depends on your character and whats congruent to you or the new you. You can make a joke about it and make it light. You can even push her onto the guy if she already has a level of attraction towards you and it will confuse her. Or if its bothering you tell her your not gay and you don't want to listen about a subject that you don't care about.
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    Default Re: How do you respond when she talks about hot guys?

    Ignore it? Sometimes women test men and its your duty as a man to have the upper hand in situations like that. Brush it off. Really and truly there are too many women in this world to be phased by only one.

    For your own amusement you should talk about how hot her friends are when you see them and she will more than likely get the message then.
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    Default Re: How do you respond when she talks about hot guys?

    I just read this recently in a book with regards to female behavior. This could be a series of events but none the less it could be a shit test. Again clearly I don't know your lady so the answers could be many but one that is true till the end of time is that she will continue to test you just to see your reaction. In a sense it could be to see if you are a jealous male. She might want to see if you get protective but not overly protective. It could be a shit ton of things and they do this both consciously and unconsciously. If I were you I would play it off with either comedy or just flat out ignore it to show I'm not faced by it. Women will continue to find men they find attractive just like men do and this is something you need to accept. It is what it is you know? Now if she starts taking steps towards hooking up with a dude then you could do different things also, remind her who her man is and demolish her in bed (women like to be reminded that you are man, and she is woman), drop her and find another, and/or reevaluate your game because it could be a sign of you lacking somewhere. These are just my two thoughts from someone that has been married when I was a chode and I know first hand what not having your shit wired tight can do.
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    Default Re: How do you respond when she talks about hot guys?

    Yeah I generally just make a joke about it or something, I was just wondering if there were any ways I could use the situation to my advantage.

    "For your own amusement you should talk about how hot her friends are when you see them and she will more than likely get the message then."

    I like that idea, I'll give it a go.

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    Default Re: How do you respond when she talks about hot guys?

    It seems like a shit test to me. She seeing if it affects you at all. I'd exaggerate the hell out her statement with a lot of humor and sarcasm and say:

    "Wow! you're right he is totally hot!! He so hot I should just grow a vagina and jump his bones right now!!!

    my 2 cents

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    Default Re: How do you respond when she talks about hot guys?

    "speaking about hot, how is x (her HB gf) doing? she is sooo hawt"

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    Default Re: How do you respond when she talks about hot guys?

    Hi,

    First of all, the girl in the situation you are describing is just being rude. I am pretty confident she is doing this on purpose so you would get upset. It's one thing to say that Brad pitt is hot, and quite another to say that someone she keeps seeing around is hot. The real question is, how do you feel about it.
    If it doesn't bother you then do nothing.

    If it does bother you:

    1. If you are confident about her attraction towards you, which I assume you aren't, than you should tell her it bothers you when she speaks of other hot guys and that she should stop. It is completely OK to not want your girlfriend to express her attraction to others. I'm sure you wouldn't do that even though you are attracted to (many) other girls.

    2. If you are not confident about her attraction towards you. You should cool off the relationship. Don't call her for a few days, let her wonder what's going on, and basically make her feel like she is loosing you. If she doesn't lose her sh1t, then you should forget about her.
    She's not respectful, and you should never be with someone who is careless about your feelings.
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    Default Re: How do you respond when she talks about hot guys?

    make her jeoulous? comment on other hot girls, it will drive her crazy and will stop comparing ;P
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    Default Re: How do you respond when she talks about hot guys?

    Me personally? I'd make a sarcastic joke about it but do it in a cheerful way so it doesn't look like you've been hurt.

    Girl: "Oh my God. That guy is totally cute. I keep seeing him around."
    Me: -laughs then replies in a sarcastic, almost announcing tone- "I agree. I sure would like to fuck his brains out." then roll your eyes at her with a grin on your face.

    Being comfortable with your sexuality and dropping a gay joke is usually good because it shows you're comfortable with who you are and are good for a laugh.


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