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    Question HB8 gave me her number, has a BF though...

    Hey guys, I'm new to the forum, I'm a 32yo experienced guy, but only recently started looking for a serious relationship, it seems I only know how to number-close and seal the deal, but not how to actually get a GF!

    SUMMARY:
    Met an 8/10 Friday, got number, text today, she says she has a BF but only "Probably" not a good idea to text, I try a BF Destroyer opening, but she doesn't bite, closes with "Thanks for being such a Gent & Take Care" - What's my next move?


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    So I met a 8/10 in a bar on Friday, got on really well, we danced a bit and most guys stood around checking her out but I kept going over, chatting to her for a bit and then moving away and repeating, until later I saw her looking over, I walked straight up and said

    Me: "Have you got your phone with you?"
    Her: "Yeah why?"
    Me: "So I can put my number in it so you can call me "
    Her: gets phone out and hands it me straight away
    Me: struggling to put my number in, realise she's not unlocked the pin
    Her: "Do you not know how to use an iPhone?!"
    Me: "Yeah, but I don't know your pin yet!"
    Her: "Oh sh1t!"

    she then forgets her pin herself, I make a comment about being flustered by my charm, she eventually unlocks it and hands it me back to put my number in, I do this and she starts to ring me straight away, so I say

    me: "Oh sh1t, maybe I should have given you my real number "
    Her: "You had better have given me the right number "

    I walk away all and make plans to go back over before she leaves, but she leaves while I'm at the bar

    Anyway, so I call her in the morning to say hey, and she doesn't answer, so I'm all but then I text her this morning to say hey again

    Me: "Hey, how was the rest of the weekend?"
    Her: "I don't remember giving you my number! I actually have a bf so it's probably not a good idea for us to text. I'm sorry if I gave you the wrong impression, I'm just a friendly girl"
    Me: "Haha, you didn't seem so drunk! No worries, your BF must be pretty special, no wrong impression taken, it's nice to know you are not an ass to guys just because you have a BF"
    Her: "Well thank YOU for being such a gentleman, take care "

    SO, do I close with "Let me know if it doesn't work out with Mr Special" or similar? Or what?

    Chronic

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    Default Re: HB8 gave me her number, has a BF though...

    I may be jumping the gun here, but it's possible she may have given you her number out of social obligation despite her comment about "You had better have given me the right number." She asked why you wanted her phone (which is strange since it's usually obvious) and she "forgot her pin" for a minute (it's a four digit number is all) and then gave up after she couldn't figure out how to get out of the situation. She figured she'd give you the message straight if you actually contacted her (which she did) . Also ...interested women don't leave if they are by themselves. Even with friends they will find a way to let you know they are leaving instead of just walking out. Her blatant text about her bf and giving you the wrong impression seems pretty straight forward that she is into her current bf. And she finally finishes with a "take care" which translates to "never text me again."

    Again I may be jumping the gun here, but there is something I am sure about...

    Phone numbers are NOT a guarantee for anything. They are simply a tool to use to get to know her more and set up a meet date. I believe it's better to walk out with 1 or 2 solid numbers than 10 flaky numbers. So I would focus on your intial interaction to be solid first before going for a phone number, which you don't always need if you are able to set up an Instant Date. You have a lot of confidence and charm already so I can tell these will be just minor tweaks to your game. Hope this helps and good luck.

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    Default Re: HB8 gave me her number, has a BF though...

    Makes a lot of sense, thanks

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    Default Re: HB8 gave me her number, has a BF though...

    Agree with Batman. Also I wanted to mention that I think you handled the BF comment well and IMO ought to leave it at that. With so many single girls out there there is no need to get into the potential can of worms that a BF would bring.

    If you run into her again at the bar say hello, and move on, its a nice little social proof to chat a moment and move on and its possible she'll have friends along that you can meet if you want to go that route.


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