Hey guys, I'm new to the forum, I'm a 32yo experienced guy, but only recently started looking for a serious relationship, it seems I only know how to number-close and seal the deal, but not how to actually get a GF!
SUMMARY: Met an 8/10 Friday, got number, text today, she says she has a BF but only "Probably" not a good idea to text, I try a BF Destroyer opening, but she doesn't bite, closes with "Thanks for being such a Gent & Take Care" - What's my next move?
The long version:
So I met a 8/10 in a bar on Friday, got on really well, we danced a bit and most guys stood around checking her out but I kept going over, chatting to her for a bit and then moving away and repeating, until later I saw her looking over, I walked straight up and said
Me: "Have you got your phone with you?"
Her: "Yeah why?"
Me: "So I can put my number in it so you can call me "
Her: gets phone out and hands it me straight away
Me: struggling to put my number in, realise she's not unlocked the pin
Her: "Do you not know how to use an iPhone?!"
Me: "Yeah, but I don't know your pin yet!"
Her: "Oh sh1t!"
she then forgets her pin herself, I make a comment about being flustered by my charm, she eventually unlocks it and hands it me back to put my number in, I do this and she starts to ring me straight away, so I say
me: "Oh sh1t, maybe I should have given you my real number "
Her: "You had better have given me the right number "
I walk away all and make plans to go back over before she leaves, but she leaves while I'm at the bar
Anyway, so I call her in the morning to say hey, and she doesn't answer, so I'm all but then I text her this morning to say hey again
Me: "Hey, how was the rest of the weekend?"
Her: "I don't remember giving you my number! I actually have a bf so it's probably not a good idea for us to text. I'm sorry if I gave you the wrong impression, I'm just a friendly girl"
Me: "Haha, you didn't seem so drunk! No worries, your BF must be pretty special, no wrong impression taken, it's nice to know you are not an ass to guys just because you have a BF"
Her: "Well thank YOU for being such a gentleman, take care "
SO, do I close with "Let me know if it doesn't work out with Mr Special" or similar? Or what?