Called her 2 days ago as the last attempt but the timing was wrong, I called her before getting home to meetup and noticed that she was a bit sick from her voice even before inviting; she said she called in sick today and that it wont be fun when she is sick. Later I found out I had the house all to myself so texted her to come to stay the night with me but she said she already went to bed so I texted back 'OK i give up. stay strong and get well'. She replied with a sad smiley face, haven't contacted her since and I feel like I'm going beta. She is going away for a few weeks soon so if she doesn't call me before leaving I guess its done. I'm sure I can get her back even after she is back but I'm not the chasing type.