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    Hotel Yorba is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default How to keep her interested?

    Been dating a girl on and off for a while now, she comes and goes depending on her/my interest level but I'd like to take things a little further. She texts me she misses all the time and thats great! But I'm afraid if I give her too much too soon she'll get her validation and be on her way however, I'm afraid if I dont act interested enough she'll lose potential feelings for me. Can you guys maybe help me find some middle ground here?

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    Default Re: How to keep her interested?

    Cat String Theory. Inconsistency is key here. Text her nice things, then once in a while don't text back at all. Keep her wondering and wanting more. Make sure you're fun and into her when you're together but don't send her texts the next day always, once in a while it's ok but generally wait for her to send you something saying it was nice, etc. wait a few hours and reply
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    Default Re: How to keep her interested?

    Cat String Theory has been my best friend through this!!
    Ex: She sends a text at let's say noon, if i havent texted her back by then I'll get another text that simply says "?" then i'd wait 10-20 minutes and reply "Sorry I was doing _____." I'm pretty good at being the string, I just hafta make sure I don't get so far away the cat loses interest :P

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    Default Re: How to keep her interested?

    Mind if I ask what you mean by "take things a little further"? Are you looking to make her your girlfriend? Just trying to go a little farther in what you guys do when you are together? The advice will be different depending on what your goals are.

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    Default Re: How to keep her interested?

    The goal is to make her my girlfriend. We've known each other for years and we always toy with the idea of a relationship every now and then...she's a 8-9 out of 10 and our personalities seem to mesh well. Now that we're venturing out of the friendzone I want to be sure that I don't act like an AFC and needy but at the same time I don't want to seem too uninterested.


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