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Thread: Ok so I open her, now what ? Online dating

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    Default Ok so I open her, now what ? Online dating

    Hi guys, it's my first time here and also I try to get back into the sece after 2 years so I will appreciate any help.

    I used an online opener from here but now I don't know how to reply.

    Her answer:
    Congrats I think that's the best message I have ever got on here!! But now I feel under pressure to reply in an equally charming and funny way and I'm struggling!
    Nothing crazy happened to me this weekend but I did go to visit my family who live in the deepest darkest depths of suffolk. My friend from London came with me, we went down the local pub and just got stared at the whole time, the room went quiet and everything - she said it was like something out of the film 'The Hills Have Eyes'.
    I know thats not that crazy or interesting but its the best I can do - sorry x

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    Default Re: Ok so I open her, now what ? Online dating

    Quote Originally Posted by alecs View Post
    Hi guys, it's my first time here and also I try to get back into the sece after 2 years so I will appreciate any help.

    I used an online opener from here but now I don't know how to reply.

    Her answer:
    Congrats I think that's the best message I have ever got on here!! But now I feel under pressure to reply in an equally charming and funny way and I'm struggling!
    Nothing crazy happened to me this weekend but I did go to visit my family who live in the deepest darkest depths of suffolk. My friend from London came with me, we went down the local pub and just got stared at the whole time, the room went quiet and everything - she said it was like something out of the film 'The Hills Have Eyes'.
    I know thats not that crazy or interesting but its the best I can do - sorry x
    The good news is, she's already trying to qualify herself to you!

    Just pick one or two things from her message & comment back on them.
    Also- give her a little positive feedback by saying something along the lines of "By the way, your reply was totally fine! You seem like you can hold a great conversation.... do tell me more!

    You're complimenting a characteristic of hers, & NOT her looks, like most lame guys would do.

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    Default Re: Ok so I open her, now what ? Online dating

    ^As he said. You could also go along the lines of "Finally someone who can do better than 'hey you look handsome ', I get too much of those!"
    Then make fun of suffolk, or ask about her London friend, and keep bouncing from subject to subject, not closing any of them

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    Default Re: Ok so I open her, now what ? Online dating

    Which opener did you use ?? I would like to know bro.....

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    Default Re: Ok so I open her, now what ? Online dating

    Me too =P

    /30characters required??

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    Default Re: Ok so I open her, now what ? Online dating

    neg her followed by a seductive complement

    "They could obviously smell you.. Probably some sexy perfume you had on. I'm surprised you didn't go home with one of them! I'd have picked you up then and there "

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    Default Re: Ok so I open her, now what ? Online dating

    Yeah, seriously... what was the opener?!?!

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    Default Re: Ok so I open her, now what ? Online dating

    Guy says, "I used an Opener, from here got a reply."

    Doesn't say what Opener....

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    Default Re: Ok so I open her, now what ? Online dating

    I'm sure the opener he's talking about is the one that has to do with "playing video games all day".

    It's pretty funny, but personally, I think it's been waaaaaay over-used now. It's a couple years old & has been vied & used by THOUSANDS & THOUSANDS of guys... so chances are that a lot of women have already been subjected to it.

    I would recommend against copying it word for word.
    Instead, use it as a template / idea & then come up with your own original email opener.



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    Default Re: Ok so I open her, now what ? Online dating

    Yeah if I can guess the opener you used by the response, and I've only been studying for 6 months or so, then I'd avoid using it...

    There is nothing more embarrassing than being caught out using a canned line you read in a book.


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