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    ElLinguista is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default What do I do when a girl is gaming me?

    Recently a girl I had a bit of a fling with a few months ago has been initiating text conversations with me asking how I am or whether we could meet up, but when I reply I can only squeeze two or so extra texts out of her before she doesn't send another reply.

    Anyways, we have arranged to meet up again now but she keeps not replying after a couple of texts! Clearly she is interested as she wouldn't be asking to meet up or texting me so frequently but at the same time there is the whole non-replying issue. After doing my research on this forum I've come to the conclusion that she is possibly playing me and trying to maintain the higher value in our interactions by having the last word.

    My question is, how on earth do I respond to that? Should I call her on what she is doing or should I just allow the balance of power to remain as it is? I currently feel out of control of what's going on and that's not what I'm currently aiming to achieve!

    Opinions on how to react?

    There is always the possibility that I have just been friend-zoned and I could be paranoid about all of this but then again she is a very socially adept person and has controlled most of our interactions in the past and so the possibility that she is doing so now is quite real. After all, every single one of my friends always replies to my responses until it makes sense not to do so.

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    Default Re: What do I do when a girl is gaming me?

    Hey bro, she has the power as of now, but you can easily turn that around.

    Treat this like your texting bible: http://www.puaforums.com/how-text-girl/5607-gunsnglorys-ultimate-texting-guide.html

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    ElLinguista is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: What do I do when a girl is gaming me?

    Cheers! I wish I'd read that before she started texting me again! Nevermind, I have the opportunity to turn things around when we meet up next week! What do you think I could do to make her believe that I'm not overly interested? Turn up late? Reschedule for another day because 'I have other plans'? She seems to think of me as her little project if she is playing me so if I seem less interested I can almost guarantee that this one will work harder for it!

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    Default Re: What do I do when a girl is gaming me?

    I think your best bet is to stay elusive. The simple fact of the matter is that despite any dhv she may be pulling, she's still chasing you. That means that ultimately the power is in your hands to let her have you. Maintain your frame and make it obvious. I don't think it would be terrible if you flaked on her, just don't fall into the trap of agreeing to the second date as a way to make it up to her for missing the first one. Remain unapologetic. If at all possible, be the one to set up the next meeting. You can get control back as long as you're solid in your frame. You've got this man!
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