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    Default Need text game feedback

    So I know I didn't establish enough rapport, basically opened a girl at the park talked to her for maybe 3min before number closing. But I'm having this pattern of a short text convo followed by no response. Then I wait a few days, get a short convo and then she stops responding. Rinse and repeat. Any hints?

    Sample:
    Me:Hey goof, bet you my weekend can beat up your weekend.
    HB8: Doubt it
    Me: Oh?
    HB: I was camping, it was awesome.
    Me: So is studying all day... I win.
    HB: Silence

    A few days later
    Me: So why don't you have your driver's license yet?
    HB: I don't know how to drive...
    Me: You're not 15 are you, cause I thought you were kinda cool
    HB: I'm just very scared of driving, and yes I'm a genius who finished college at 15. that's pretty cool too.
    Me: aw man guess I'll have to return this engagement ring now...
    Silence

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    Default Re: Need text game feedback

    OK I'm no expert, I hate trying to interpret texts, but if this is someone you only just met, I think the words "engagement" and "ring" are no go's unless you are discussing war tactics or the liberty bell. I hope you get the joke. That might have freaked her and gave her the impression that you are a wierdo who'll be proposing in two weeks. She may not have much of a sense of humor or sarcasm, despite the innocence you intended. And in your first exchange, I know you were being intentionally dorky and ironic by claiming that studying all day was a more awesome way to spend the weekend than camping, but I think you have to get into the female head here. Some women are academic and enjoy learning and appreciate an intelligent guy, but when you are trying to get their attention, INITIALLY, I think most DESIRABLE women would rather hear about a drag race, a scuba diving trip, or even a small party at a friend's house rather than hear you admit that you spent all weekend at the library with your nose in books. As they get to know you, they'll appreciate the serious side, but they want to see your fun side at the start.

    Now it isn't all lost. I don't have an answer for a save, but I'm being straight up that if this is a chick who is girly, very attractive, and has lots of potential suitors, jokes about engagement rings and studious weekends aren't going to tickle her dirty parts.

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    Default Re: Need text game feedback

    Read b4utxther. It's a great piece of literature. As far as I can tell, here's what you did wrong.

    Your first text was good, you used a great opening line. But Ke's right, the studying response made me throw up in my mouth a little. Next time, be overly outlandish. It's ok to lie if you both know you're lying. Say something like "Lol damn I guess you do win. All I did was teach my pet kangaroo how to box, but Muhammad A-leap just doesn't have it in him ;-)." On another note, try adding those goofy text abreviations and smileys to you texts, it keeps things lighthearted and the faces are a great indicator of tone. The great thing about making up stuff like this is that occasionally it gives you the opportunity of starting a Roleplay with her, where you basically create a whole imaginary memory with her (which, depending on how realistic you make it, can be just as powerful as a real memory)

    ...Seriously, read the book.
    Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming “WOW...What a Ride!”

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    Default Re: Need text game feedback

    Yea you didn't have enough comfort so you need at least somewhat decent text game to get her to respond.

    Your text about studying all day made you seem boring...esp. when you say your weekend could beat hers she was prolly expecting you to do be doing something awesome...if you said "Yea I was hanging out w Brad Pitt" you would have got a response.

    And the return engagement thing conveyed way too much interest...you don't want her to think she's anything more than just another girl who's going to have to impress you.

    You should just be building up more comfort. So when she says she's camping, ask her about camping. Favorite place to camp, any good stories from her trip etc.

    She was giving you a bit of attitude w the 2nd thread, and you never want to keep rewarding them when they give you attitude like that, you want to keep your texts distant like maybe she's losing you w her attitude, until she starts acting nicer. Hard to explain, don't be mean, but don't keep throwing flirtatious interest out there.

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    Default Re: Need text game feedback

    Hmm regarding attitude, should I have just been like "ic" and leave it at that? I was actually considering just not responding and re-openning another day after her response, guess I made the wrong choice.

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    Default Re: Need text game feedback

    Dude..!

    At the point when u used the weekend text game the HB said" Doubt it! " That was you loop to dhv the Oh? Response was alryt as it gave you a chance to seek out somthing better than camping..the way she is giving u attitude in her responses is like she has you figured out.

    By her counter neg "I'm a genius who finished college at 15" it was a chance to throw in sumthing silly/funny. Your last text (Yikes).All this HB wants is a cool dude/Bad Ass so be that guy.Visit the Ultimate text guide by gunsandglory there is some gud stuff there...

    Stay positive


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