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Thread: 1st date. Cinema Date. Any tips so I dont mess this up too quickly?

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    Default 1st date. Cinema Date. Any tips so I dont mess this up too quickly?

    Ok so met a girl who I'd number closed previously and then been flaked on for a day 2, so I didn't bother rearranging the coffee as i assumed she didn't want to see me again. In any case I saw her when in town doing some shopping and she started busting on me for not rearranging the coffee. After a bit of Fluff conversation, i asked her what her favorite colour was and she said she didnt know so i busted on her for being indecisive and ejected to look at nearby magazines. She then comes up to me and comes out with this whole speech of why she likes red, not giving me a chance to reply, fluff, fluff, fluff. In any case we're seeing each other on friday and going to see a film. Anything I should keep in mind about the format of a cinema date? How can I make it special?

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    Default Re: 1st date. Cinema Date. Any tips so I dont mess this up too quickly?

    Hi Steal,

    For first date it is better to do a coffee or drinks. This is because it is more interactive. You can Kino etc.

    Cinema may put a bit o' pressure on both of you as you sit out the movie, not talking to each other for 90 minutes.

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    Default Re: 1st date. Cinema Date. Any tips so I dont mess this up too quickly?

    Try to coffee and then Instant Date?

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    Default Re: 1st date. Cinema Date. Any tips so I dont mess this up too quickly?

    That's a difficult one. Focus more on the activity. Interaction should be secondary.

    I would prefer going on dates that are more unique, such as the museum, salsa lessons, etc. Check out the section on dating in the Magic Bullets Book its great.

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    Default Re: 1st date. Cinema Date. Any tips so I dont mess this up too quickly?

    Movie theatre is a shitty first date, The story shes listening to is the movies not yours, go to something like bowling or coffee or someshit, Bowling if you know how and she doesnt, this way you can build Kino as well

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    Default Re: 1st date. Cinema Date. Any tips so I dont mess this up too quickly?

    Quote Originally Posted by Steal View Post
    Ok so met a girl who I'd number closed previously and then been flaked on for a day 2, so I didn't bother rearranging the coffee as i assumed she didn't want to see me again. In any case I saw her when in town doing some shopping and she started busting on me for not rearranging the coffee. After a bit of Fluff conversation, i asked her what her favorite colour was and she said she didnt know so i busted on her for being indecisive and ejected to look at nearby magazines. She then comes up to me and comes out with this whole speech of why she likes red, not giving me a chance to reply, fluff, fluff, fluff. In any case we're seeing each other on friday and going to see a film. Anything I should keep in mind about the format of a cinema date? How can I make it special?

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    Default Re: 1st date. Cinema Date. Any tips so I dont mess this up too quickly?

    Quote Originally Posted by DandyLion View Post
    That;s possibly the worst idea for failure ever.

    I (and I don't mean to sound like a d*ck) agree... It may have been the "social norm" when our parents were growing up to take a girl out for dinner and a movie BUT that's not how it works today. A first date needs to have interaction between the two of you. Sitting through a movie awkwardly for 90+ minutes is a recipe for disaster.

    Hopefully it's not too late to change plans? Good luck!
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    Default Re: 1st date. Cinema Date. Any tips so I dont mess this up too quickly?

    I agree with everyone. Taking girl to the mall is also a good date because from there you can go get some coffee or ice cream, you can go to different places whenever where ever.
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    Default Re: 1st date. Cinema Date. Any tips so I dont mess this up too quickly?

    Hate to say but these guys are all right: movie date for the first date is bad news.

    No one offered a solution though...

    Here's my idea on how to save this: text her and tell her you want to change from a movie date to something more casual. But do it in a fun way...

    Examples:

    "Hey so I was thinking this is moving too fast already, I know you want to make out in the dark or whatever, but I really dont know you that well yet! I mean after all you don't even know MY favorite color yet."

    This is a poke at her trying to get with you, and typically works great becuz it suggests things will get to that point regardless but youre not interested in that just yet and have some self control - thats sexy to women and it shows youre not just trying to get some either.

    "Hey, so hows about coffee instead of a movie? I want to learn more about you and I feel like we wont able to talk much in the theater, ya feel?"

    This shows her youre laid back, as well as that you have dated with success before and know that a movie date to start isnt going to help much. Again it also shows you are interested HER and not her vagina. She'll surely agree.

    If she insists on the movie you can say, "okay have it your way but I dont think well be seeing much but the back of our eyelids" just something to suggest that if its a movie she wants shell be getting her entertainment from you and not the film.

    MY EXPERIENCE:

    Met a girl who was a friend of a friend and chatted her into a phone number thru facebook and then played my text game like a champ and she was young and horny too...yet I failed...WHy? Because I went with a movie date.

    #1) she brought a friend and that caught me off guard as I was alone
    #2) I couldnt talk to her at all cuz we were in a movie, but she seemed to think that we would at least whisper something? Girls dunno whats right from wrong they just go with the moment you place them in and if it makes no sense then they are turned off.
    #3) She told me after it was awkward cuz we didnt "talk much" on the date and just sat there and then left after it was over and then texted later...boringgg

    I agreed but had no easy way to argue that shes stupid because its not polite to jabber in movies, so basically we just stopped texting and that was that. The movie date for the first date ruined everything.

    If youre gonna do the movie at least suggest that you grab a bite to eat before or take a walk and enjoy the weather then head out to the cinema. Whatever you do dont just plan the date so you both show up to the theater when the movie is about to start get tix go in say nothing and then part ways after and thats that, shell lose interest quite quickly. Good luck mate.


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