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    Default Help building attraction without telegraphing too much interest

    I need some advice building attraction without telegraphing too much interest via text. Where am I going wrong?

    So I've been practicing approaches for a few months with my wing & this is a new outlook on social scenes. I'm confident that I can get a phone number each night if I'm focused & vigilant.

    So I've collected many numbers & experimented with various texting strategies: cocky/funny teasing, comfort building, direct date planing. But I keep feeling no connection with the girls. Maybe I'm spread too thin. (Girls must feel this all the time as they feed their flock of dudes little seeds at a time)

    One lesson I've learned is to find common interests & qualify her before getting her number. This gives us a reason to exchange info & meet again.

    For example: Number closed very fun HB9 after joking, compliance testing & talking about a concert coming up. Her responses to jokes are short with no bait. Should I just wait a week & send her the concert info?

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    Default Re: Help building attraction without telegraphing too much interest

    Regarding: building attraction without telegraphing too much interest

    I just had coffee with a friend-girl & the waitress was super hot. I thought I was playing it cool but as soon as I mentioned the waitress, my friend-girl said, "Are you interested? I sensed something."

    Is that a problem? What can I do to keep my intentions a mystery but also raise my target's attraction?

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    Default Re: Help building attraction without telegraphing too much interest

    I think its important to know, just randomly tying approaches your working off the lowest common denominator.. Which means your going to have the least results. Are you trying to match proper text game with the character of the girl?

    Most of the text game here I see are just openers, convo starters and transitions... YOu have to really interact with the girl to build attraction. A continuos stream of text game really wont escalate much and will keep you feeling distanced from the girl. And she will feel distanced from you also....

    Use the text games for openers, and transitions and for e-opens.. but your going to have to dig in and talk to her to escalate things and build attraction.
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    Default Re: Help building attraction without telegraphing too much interest

    there aren't very many ways to build attraction in texting. Texting is probably good for comfort but bad in that. It can even be good in the seduction phase.
    But if you want to build attraction in texting, try and seem a little aloof. It will make you seem like you have a life and you have other girls texting you. Texting to fast back makes you seem needy, being try hard can seem needy and nicknames are fun to use. Thats pretty much all I got on attraction building in texting.
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