Top 10 Stats
Latest Posts Loading... Loading...
Loading...
Loading...
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
Loading...
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

Results 1 to 3 of 3
  1. #1
    ElLinguista is offline Aspiring PUA
    Points: 76, Level: 1
    Level completed: 52%, Points required for next Level: 24
    Overall activity: 0%
    Join Date
    Jul 2012
    Posts
    12
    Points
    76
    Level
    1
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    9

    Default Ethics of practicing game on dating sites

    Hey,

    I've been in a bit of a moral dilema over whether or not I should try to practice my game on online dating sites. They're ideal for me as I don't have much trouble approaching girls so the pre-planned aspect doesn't matter to me but it's a big help with the whole getting from a normal conversation to seduction that I need to work on and chances at dates with random girls provide the perfect opportunity for that.

    However, is it really fair to approach these women who probably more than likely want a relationship in order to use them as trial runs? In a bar it is fair because women know the risk they run of a one night thing, but on online dating it seems to me that you genuinely run the risk of upsetting somebody. Where do you guys land on the ethics of practicing through online dating?

  2. #2
    whitedragon is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
    Points: 15,299, Level: 79
    Level completed: 90%, Points required for next Level: 51
    Overall activity: 99.0%
    Achievements:
    Social10000 Experience Points31 days registered
    Join Date
    May 2012
    Posts
    1,032
    Points
    15,299
    Level
    79
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    675

    Default Re: Ethics of practicing game on dating sites

    Of course it's ok. Girls use game extensively on their dating profiles too and many do not give a fark about anyones feelings but their own. If a women says on a dating site she is looking for a husband that's obviously an ultimate goal not an immediate one. Girls are incredible on dating sites: 'no time wasters!' 'not looking for casual sex' 'I'm not that type of girl!' 'i don't want my heart broken for the 50th time' 'dont bother if your this or that' 'I'm a nun for christs sake' 'want to meet my fairy prince charming soulmate'. Some profiles are so full of warnings and disclaimers you'd think a solicitor had drafted them. sh1t tests. I just ignore all of that garbage. From my perspective how do I know I'm truly compatible until I've tested the girl myself or further ahead, slept with them? Blah blah blah about what the woman wants - well what about what the man wants? Billions of sperm per day versus 1 or 2 eggs a month. Clearly some of the things men want are biological not ethical. It's a dating site, not a 'marriage or nothing' site. So go for it. It's not much of a moral issue unless your powerful enough to abuse mind control ala Charles Manson. Your basically tapping into evolutionary triggers aswell as testing your own potential. PUA is not MKULTRA, you don't have to lie to get a girl into bed and playing games is a natural part of courtship in almost an animal.

    Also many women I met online I didn't date but they helped me in some way and vice versa. As long as your not mean about what your doing there is no obligation on dating sites that you have to only be LTR material. I like to tell women it's not how long or short a relationship is but how special it is.

  3. #3
    ridemyr1 is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
    Points: 1,096, Level: 18
    Level completed: 96%, Points required for next Level: 4
    Overall activity: 0%
    Achievements:
    7 days registered1000 Experience Points
    Join Date
    May 2012
    Location
    JVegas, NC
    Posts
    165
    Points
    1,096
    Level
    18
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    58

    Default Re: Ethics of practicing game on dating sites

    my personal experience with online dating. POF is just for sex on a very good average. MATCH for relationships. Cupid is for both and everything else is just for sex. I get lays from POF like once or twice a month sometimes. MATCH, these women are serious because they had to pay in the first place.
    To my bros who served with me.
    "When it comes your time to die, be not like those whose hearts are filled with the fear of death, so that when their time comes they weep and pray for a little more time to live their lives over again in a different way. Sing your death song and die like a hero going home.


Similar Threads

  1. Online Dating Sites
    By HighTower in forum Online And Text Game
    Replies: 22
    Last Thread: 12-03-2012, 01:21 PM
  2. What am I doing wrong on these dating sites?
    By MoonlightsHaven in forum Online And Text Game
    Replies: 7
    Last Thread: 05-31-2012, 04:57 PM
  3. No responses @ online dating sites
    By SmoothPUA in forum General Questions
    Replies: 0
    Last Thread: 02-06-2012, 11:30 PM
  4. online dating sites
    By kylaj in forum Online And Text Game
    Replies: 0
    Last Thread: 11-21-2010, 07:23 AM
  5. Help on dating sites!
    By BatMan in forum Online And Text Game
    Replies: 1
    Last Thread: 06-12-2008, 08:49 AM

Bookmarks

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •  
DMCA.com