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    thecasualpua is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Been dating for a year and a half starting to go cold need help!!!!

    So my girlfriend of a year and a half is starting to go cold on me she says she still loves me and wants to work things out, but I've been the main cause of the pushing away. I get jealous too easily and have pushed her away because of it. Were on a break atm and i really want to win her back. I've hung out with her a couple times since it's happened and she's been texting this one guy who is in a complete different city than us and is always asking her to come up and hangout with him..I love the girl to death and she's the one who got me to give up the game for something bigger. Any advice on how to react with this new guy in the picture?? and how i can get her back in my life?

    Really need help here guys thanks!

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    thecasualpua is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: Been dating for a year and a half starting to go cold need help!!!!

    come on ya'll have support for a brotha!

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    Artorias is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Been dating for a year and a half starting to go cold need help!!!!

    If you want any advice, we're going to need more information. Such as what did you do? What did she do? Etc... I would recommend giving as much information as possible next time, if you want good, quick replies.
    Also it appears to have just been an hour since you posted, have patience my friend.

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    ashlars is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Been dating for a year and a half starting to go cold need help!!!!

    First of all, if she asks for a break, give it to her. Do not contact her AT ALL. She is expecting you to break the no contact rule and come running back to her. It's a very common mistake that good, desperate men make. It's best to set a timeline for the break and to follow it exactly. Usually about 1-2 weeks is a good break (as long as you follow the "no contact" rule)

    As for the guy she's texting: the more you talk/ask about him, the more she will talk to him. Act as if you do not care at all and you trust her. Insecurity and jealousy are the two biggest killers of ALL relationships. I'm also guessing that you are a fair amount of "clingy"? All three of these things combined will make your relationship go cold faster than cheating on her.

    What you can do now: nothing. You will just have to wait for her to come back. The more you pressure her, the more you will push her away. If she still really loves you, she will come back after the break, trust me. I've been through many breaks in my life and the real ones always come back. If she does come back, its not all over, however. You still have a lot of hard work to do. ABSOLUTELY NO jealousy, insecurity, or "clinginess"! Wait for her to ask to see you. Don't reply to her texts or phone calls right away; give it an hour or two. Little things like this will make her think YOU are in control and make HER afraid to lose YOU. Good luck!


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