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    Exclamation What to do when suspected IOI backfires

    Hey Everyone,

    This is my first post.

    Tonight I was on facebook, baiting this girl i've been talking to for a little over a week now, and i used some routines on her, and some openers; everything went well.

    From time to time she would give me IOS; e.g. We were talking about kissing and I said, "alright don't get too ahead of yourself." She then proceeded to say 'I can't promise anything'---this was an ioi i thought...which led me to believe the sex thing.

    I then played the strawberry field routine with her, and explained it all to her and she bought it.

    Since I won, i said, alright i'll give you two choices; 1) Write me a poem right now 2) Tell me where you would want to have sex with youpassionately

    She said the poem, but didn't want to right it impulsively. I knew things were kind of crashing and burning, but since she lives kind of far away, I told her just to do #2. She said she hadn't visualized having sex with me, and that it takes a lot for her to have sex..and I said ok.

    I then uploaded some photographs of another girl I had hung out with a while back, and this girl, the girl i've been talking about, tells me she doesn't like the pictures, and that she's a little jealous.

    I got out with a "Don't worry, Dream of me tonight"

    Ultimately i got out ahead, but i don't understand why she would be jealous but she hasn't thought about having sex with me? Someone give me some feedback, please

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    Default Re: What to do when suspected IOI backfires

    those were ioi's she chose number two cuz that was a ASD she said she takes her time to have sex (denier) u need to respect that but weirdly u can be persistant sexually, just don't talk about it in a disgusting way don't make it seem like it's the only thing u want (tease her with it, make it seem like she's the one that wants u in a funny way) and as long as u show a genuine intrest in her personality.
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
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    Default Re: What to do when suspected IOI backfires

    Xavier,

    Thanks again, really appreciate all of your feedback!

    If i may, a couple questions: 1)She lives a few hours away from me, so should I try a holding technique, or just do the alpha male thing and not really place any concern on whether or not anything gets serious will straying away from the friend zone?

    2) After i told that last message, to try and reassure her, should i just wait until she contacts me again, or should I contact her?

    3) Finally, what's the best way to keep something like this going, given it's purely skype/facebook oriented, and there's only so much to say?

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    Default Re: What to do when suspected IOI backfires

    1)u mean while straying away from the friend zone yes thats what i would do.
    2)yes wait a couple of days then open her with i just met u're twin.....
    3) honestly not really an online game guy but i would guess keep it interesting and try to build rapport and sexual Tension as much as u can
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