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    Default 20 Questions ( Text Game)

    I accidentally stumbled across this earlier today, and had to share it. And so this marks my first post

    I'm going to share the backstory and the execution before explaining why I did what I did. As for why it worked, I'll offer my theories but there are many people here who would be able to give a more experienced analysis. hint hint

    Backstory:
    She contacted me over the summer. It wasnt a text, and was honestly really out of the blue. While talking to her I found out shes got a huge passion for marine life but hasnt been to an aquarium in years. Later that day I was going through some paperwork and hallelujah turns out I've got two tickets. Ten texts later...

    Execution:
    HB: I'll be here until Sunday
    me: gotcha. any plans next weekend?
    hb: Nopes
    me: kk stay free sunday kay?
    hb: Sure. I may or may not have to work. I'll check tomorrow
    me: honestly saturday works too. but if youve got work both days get out of one of them
    hb: Alrighty
    me: hey ive got a game for you ready for the rules?
    hb: Ready as I'll ever be
    me: 20 questions, yes or no to figure out what ive got planned. theres a prize if you can get it!
    {guesses. ill upload on request but not much to be seen until...}
    me: no again. thats 13. remember it has to with water
    hb: THE AQUARIUM?!?!?!?!?
    me: ive managed to get my hands on two tickets
    hb: YES!!!!!!! fark YES!!!!!

    She had very willingly gotten into talking about her weekend, and mentioned that she was out of town and getting back at the end of the weekend. Gut instinct told me that this was the opportune moment and the rest goes from there. The next key moment came when she had figured out where I was taking her. I was very authentically nonchalant about this. Yes Ive got a hold on some tickets. Yes you've wanted to go for ages. Its no big deal. Welcome to my circle

    I feel like she may have been somewhat skeptical about it at first, but until then I had run solid, confident game and that was enough to get me at least the benefit of the doubt. The prize was put in as an extra incentive, but she never mentioned it so it seems like that passed under the radar. Once she started playing, her guesses were used as material to poke fun at her with until she eventually figured it out

    In order to for her to go through all twenty questions without getting bored, she has be engaged beyond simply the yes and no answers. You have to have a fun vibe around you actively picking up on topics and sidetracking the conversation as needed. The other key requirement: you have to be able to have her agree to meet with you without any information on what the two of you will be doing. Right before coming across the tickets, I had just read GunsnGlory's Ultimate Texting Guide and I do recommend it for anyone who is unsure on building attraction and trust

    So there it is. Any comments, questions or advice would be awesome

    I'd be especially interested in what people think of how I reacted after she got it, and how I asked her about if she was free. Thanks in advance folks

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    Default Re: 20 Questions ( Text Game)

    Starkiller,

    I think you came on a little too strong, and ultimately, you didn't really build up any rapport or Comfort except by using the game as a means of producing happiness.

    Other than that, I'm not sure if 20 questions is a good game to play with a girl, because it comes off more as an interview.

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    Default Re: 20 Questions ( Text Game)

    What you mentioned about coming on too strong has been a nagging point for me. I'm still working on finding a happy medium

    You're right with the rapport and comfort part too. It completely slipped my mind and wasnt at all something I concerned myself with

    I didnt think 20 questions could come off as an interview though, simply because the female is the only one asking questions

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    Default Re: 20 Questions ( Text Game)

    Quote Originally Posted by Starkiller View Post
    What you mentioned about coming on too strong has been a nagging point for me. I'm still working on finding a happy medium

    You're right with the rapport and comfort part too. It completely slipped my mind and wasnt at all something I concerned myself with

    I didnt think 20 questions could come off as an interview though, simply because the female is the only one asking questions

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    Starkiller,

    Must have overlooked that last bit. My apologies

    Anyway, don't worry about it man. Truth be told, I'm brand new to this too. Today I attempted my first in person pickup, and i crashed and burned. But you know what? I feel great. I was expecting to feel like shit, but i've embraced the lifestyle and rejection means nothing.

    Regards,

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    Default Re: 20 Questions ( Text Game)

    Quote Originally Posted by DandyLion View Post
    Starkiller,

    Must have overlooked that last bit. My apologies

    Anyway, don't worry about it man. Truth be told, I'm brand new to this too. Today I attempted my first in person pickup, and i crashed and burned. But you know what? I feel great. I was expecting to feel like sh1t, but i've embraced the lifestyle and rejection means nothing.

    Regards,

    DandyLion
    Haha dont worry about it mate

    I know what you mean. Rejection doesnt hurt. Every time you dont handle a situation properly is an opportunity to learn and work on yourself. Its bigger than just picking up women. Its about being the best you possible


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