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    Saff Mcgraff is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default It's Getting & Heavy, I need help.

    Okay this is very very odd what I am about to say but this girl just texted me something that completely through me for a loop. So I have been texting this HB8 I met a couple of weeks back and we have been texting back and forth quite a bit. But a new obstacle just entered the equation. I know not overthink things but this is wack what this girl said to me. I think she is trying to challenge me to step up and take it to the next level and be more serious. I think she means I am being too nonchalant but I am not trying to be too boring, too funny, too serious, too needy, but I can't do everything!

    Either way I have been treating our interaction in a very lighthearted manner not trying to reveal myself and maintain myself as a man of mystery. But still I am not sure what the heck to do in response to this text I just got. I mean this is very hard to discern and respond appropriately without going overboard. I just don't get it. Like WTF? I mean I texted her and said things like


    "What are you wearing?"
    "You're eyes are brown right?"
    "We should go out this weekend."
    "What's you're sweet spot?"

    She responded to me occasionally and recently said via text

    "Sorry, you are asking the wrong questions."

    There's a million and 1 things I could say to that and could take it in a number of different directions but I just wanted to know what you guys think I should do...

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    Default Re: It's Getting & Heavy, I need help.

    Well from what I can tell so far it seems that the interaction isn't as light hearted as you think. Sounds like she's not ready for any sexual talk and not ready to meet up. The issue most likely lies with attraction. You have to build alot of attraction to pull these questions off. Keep studying text game and you will slowly get it with experience.

    As for her shit test its really her setting a frame and you can just change it easily. Interpret everything she does as if she is trying to hit on you or win you over. Then the words will come out naturally. I would respond with something like, "Very demanding aren't you...too bad because I'm very rebellious and we'd argue all the time. " Then change the subject and don't even directly react to what she said. Hope this helps and good luck .

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    Default Re: It's Getting & Heavy, I need help.

    That is awesome feedback! Not many girls will tell you that

    "Sorry, you are asking the wrong questions." = I dont know how to respond to your questions, but I am interested and you should try a different approach.

    Your 4 phrases you posted seem so pre-made and i am not sure how you would fit all4 in context within a short period of time. So I assume your trying to escalate her before she is even hooked or has any real attraction for you. Take a step backwards, go back to the messages where she responded friendly and quickly. That is her interest area, just re-engage with those points you were talking about and build from there before you escalate again.
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