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    Default Re: Let Her Down Easy

    Just tell her that you're really in love with her, act jealous all the time, and buy her stuff. She will break-up with you. This is the ultimate jedi mind-fark. Works like a charm!
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    Quote Originally Posted by liukang75 View Post
    Just tell her that you're really in love with her, act jealous all the time, and buy her stuff. She will break-up with you. This is the ultimate jedi mind-fark. Works like a charm!
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    Just look through the "I want my ex back" part of this site and learn from the AFC's. Barney used afc behavior on How I met Your Mother to get rid of a chick. Freakin hilarious--and brilliant!!! I don't know where you're at but street cred doesn't really matter gaming in big citys. It only matters if you're gaming women that are all connected.
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    It's not about street cred; it's about principle. Which road you take determines your strength as a man. Don't get me wrong, what you say works. It also separates the boys from the men, because any p*ssy can make a girl break up with him. If you're willing to jeopardize your character to take the easy way out, to each his own.
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    Great Advice Cody. THANK GOD I did these things without knowing about them! Had a few really good friends tell me they liked me way back. I really liked them (as friends only) and didnt want to hurt them. Your advice really is great for when you want to keep the girl's friendship.

    One QUICK Q: I often let down girls by saying (in addition to waht you said) that "If I change my mind, I will come out and tell you. You don't have to think 'is he giving me signals? Does he like me?' I respect you enough to come out and just say it."

    Is that a good thing to add or will it mess her up? THANKS for your advice!


    P.S. Re: AFC... Why, why, WHY would ANYONE want to do what all the other guys do when breaking up? I thought we were all trying to get past AFC behavior??? If you break up wrong, it can have all sorts of effects... and when/where you least suspect it. Especially if she knows your hangouts!
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    Hey Lockdown,

    One QUICK Q: I often let down girls by saying (in addition to what you said) that "If I change my mind, I will come out and tell you. You don't have to think 'is he giving me signals? Does he like me?' I respect you enough to come out and just say it."

    Honestly, I'm not sure. I've never said it to a girl like that before, so use your own judgement. Has it worked well for you? I could see the pros and cons. Saying it with confidence gives her reassurance and sets her at ease; however, the simple fact that you left the door open could be enough to drive her crazy. I know a lot of guys like to keep women on the hook, but I'm not about that. If attraction previously existed, it can be built back in a matter of seconds, so there's no need to leave the door cracked. It's similar to the friendzone in that if you know what you're doing it'll never be a problem.

    So I like what you're saying. My speech goes a little differently, but that doesn't mean it's any better. I'll share the relevant part just in case you're wondering how I do it:

    "I hesitate to mention this because I don't want to get your hopes up, but I'm not going to lie to you. We might have a future further down the road; years from now. It's true. I don't know the future any more than you do, so I'm not going to say it couldn't happen. It very well could, but I don't want you to dwell on that. If it's going to happen, it's going to happen regardless, so live your life as you will and what's meant to be, will."

    Obviously, only say this to the girls you mean it to. If you see no future whatsoever, don't lie to her. That's just rude.
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    Thanks for your perspective. I totally see what you mean about keeping her on the hook.

    I have personally used my "I will tell you" line with two girls. They both mentioned that line specifically when we talked several months after the fact. IIRC one even said that it helped her stay sane because we would run into each other alot. In other words, even when I was friendly, she saw it as only that... she never had to guess if I liked her (which kept her attraction to me low).

    Oh and both girls were ones I had NO feelings for. They were more like sisters. So this may be different than what your speaking of. I'm talking about girls I've known who just came out and said they liked me. I was not actively practicing/flirting with them intentionally. And I certainly didnt have any romantic/sexual relationship with them.
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