If you’re seeing a lot of women there’s a good chance your reputation is going to take a blow. If you want to maintain a positive image, your exit game is going to have to be just as strong as—if not stronger than—your entrance game. Here are some tips for letting her down easy, making a smooth transition, and saving your street cred.
#1. Do it at her place. Or at least a neutral location. When you drop the bomb the last thing you want to be worrying about is logistics. If you do it at your place she’s either a) not going to want to leave, or b) not going to enjoy you driving her home (and neither are you.) At her place she has all the necessities for a breakup recovery kit: Her bed, ice cream, a shovel, and Disney movies. If she doesn’t have them all she has to do is mop around until her girl friends show up to consol her.
#2. Take into consideration the kind of girl. If she’s a trooper, do it on a Monday. This way she has the whole week to power through. If she’s going to need downtime do it on a Friday. Here she has the entire weekend to lie in bed feeling sorry for herself.
#3. It’s absolutely, positively, NOT her fault. If you blame her in the least she’s going to want to compromise. She will change. She can make it work, but it’s not her, it’s you (even when it’s really her.)
[Note: You’re not lying; you’re a PUA. This is who you are. This is what you do.]
#4. Don’t Freeze Out. (Completely) Give her space, but don’t let her go. If you go full-blown no contact she’s going to have every reason to call you a jerk. Check up on her from time to time, whether it be the occasional text message or Facebook wall post. After all, you’re not a d*ck and you do still care about her; things just didn’t work out.
Take this from a guy who has broken every single one of these tips. If you follow each of these she might hate you at first, but eventually she will realize you handled the situation like a true gentleman.
Be a man and do it right. That’s what separates us from the douchebags.