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    Talking Girls not texting back - what to do?

    Hi guys.
    I'm living in a district where many girls think that they "know many people and they are famous a bit".
    So they do not reply. Only the boys they think are famous, too. Or soo handsome etc.

    I hope you understand my problem and how i need your help.
    What kind of opener can make them talk to me ?

    "hey, i'm gonna rob a bank, will you come with me?" - no response

    "hi there, how r u?" - surely no response

    "i met your twin" - no response ?!

    i seriously need your help guys..

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    Default Re: Girls not texting back - what to do?

    Hey byteovice,

    Texting success depends on how you came across in the initial interaction.
    If there was no attraction or comfort when you were face to face with the girl the chance of her flaking on a text is high.

    So to get a girl to respons to your texts you need to work more on the seduction stages when you are with her.

    The seduction steps are linear with slight variation, but the basic structure is: Open --> hook--> Attract-->Rapport-->Escalate-->Close

    Attraction can take place fairly quickly and is the least you need to be confident with a text.

    The problem you're having is that the girls are valuing your competition over you. That needs to be addressed to raise your text game. You need to dhv.

    Read this for a start: The Newbie Guide

    Hope this helps
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    Default Re: Girls not texting back - what to do?

    Quote Originally Posted by byetovice View Post
    Hi guys.
    I'm living in a district where many girls think that they "know many people and they are famous a bit".
    So they do not reply. Only the boys they think are famous, too. Or soo handsome etc.

    I hope you understand my problem and how i need your help.
    What kind of opener can make them talk to me ?

    "hey, i'm gonna rob a bank, will you come with me?" - no response

    "hi there, how r u?" - surely no response

    "i met your twin" - no response ?!

    i seriously need your help guys..
    How well do you know the girls you're texting? If you just met them, your text approach will be different than if you already know them.

    But, either way you want them to be fun & interesting.

    The "rob a bank" text was on the right track... but if you were to change it up a bit it might be more effective.
    Try something like, "Hey Speed Racer, Will u be my getaway driver?"
    Most likely she'll laugh, say "yes/no", or "what for / why?"

    If she asks why you need a getaway driver, THEN say something like "I need someone with a lead foot to help me with a bank heist! "

    Here's a couple more that usually have a good response rate-
    (Mainly because they're either really silly, have a bit of intrigue that sparks a girl's curiosity, or gets her involved in some way)

    "Hey Sassy-Pants, you'll never guess what happened..."

    "Why were you hiding in my closet last night?"

    "Too bad you missed all the fun! maybe next time you'll be there"

    "Pizza withdrawl... should I get pepperoni or just cheese?"

    "There may or may not be a ninja hiding in my room right now..."

    "Was that you on the news last night?"

    You get the idea.... playful, fun, interesting, goofy/silly.. etc. But they all spark curiosity. So, once you get her to respond, you need to keep the fun vibe going so she doesn't lose interest.
    But these should at least help kick start your convos.



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    Smile Re: Girls not texting back - what to do?

    Understand.
    I've been trying to fix the first dates on facebok and succeed one time yesterday. Maybe that's why i can't be succesful, i do not know the girls i try to talk.

    I don't have much option. i can say something playful, or just can say "hello, how r u". RighT? Because i don't know and want to know.

    Now, can you help me after reading these?

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    Default Re: Girls not texting back - what to do?

    Quote Originally Posted by byetovice View Post
    Understand.
    I've been trying to fix the first dates on facebok and succeed one time yesterday. Maybe that's why i can't be succesful, i do not know the girls i try to talk.

    I don't have much option. i can say something playful, or just can say "hello, how r u". RighT? Because i don't know and want to know.

    Now, can you help me after reading these?
    I'd stay away from the "Hi how r u?" kind of messages. There's nothing interesting about them & she probably gets a TON of messages just like that.... so you'd be blending in with the rest of them.

    If you don't know them yet (or not very well) & you're making more of an introduction, you could try a few things like:

    "Heya, You seem like you'd be a riot to hang with in real life..."

    or

    "So, what's up with the devilish look in your eyes?"

    or

    "LOL! You look like you're quite a prankster, I bet your friends have to be on their toes at all times!!"

    or

    "Ya know, I noticed you smile an awful lot... are you just really friendly, or are you up to something?"

    or

    "OMG! You look like a trouble maker. How much time did you spend in detention in school?"

    These types of messages frame her as being a certain type of girl, which usually causes them to respond & agree, or even disagree....
    But either way it gets her attention, causes a reaction & makes her more likely to reply back.

    These may help you out a bit more, for those initial contact messages.


    Then once you've been messaging with them, you can use the previous examples I gave you, in order to re-initiate contact & re-engage a conversation.


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