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    Default Good facebook opener for girl i don't really know?

    Me: Hi,

    You didn't really strike me as the type of girl that would listen to Muse or Radiohead; I'm slightly impressed. Your music taste is a like a huge collage of different genres, a melting pot of music :P



    Tell me you like The Smiths too. If you don't i'll have to brainwash you with their music until you fall in love with them
    haha

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    Default Re: Good facebook opener for girl i don't really know?

    Quote Originally Posted by DandyLion View Post
    Me: Hi,

    You didn't really strike me as the type of girl that would listen to Muse or Radiohead; I'm slightly impressed. Your music taste is a like a huge collage of different genres, a melting pot of music :P



    Tell me you like The Smiths too. If you don't i'll have to brainwash you with their music until you fall in love with them
    haha
    I've used a similar style of message on POF & Match.
    With those sites, I've learned you have to sometimes dial the negs/cockiness back just a bit... but on FB, you can razz a little harder & it works OK.

    I'd try making a few variations of that & see which one(s) have the best response.

    Sometimes a couple little word changes can make a huge difference.

    The biggest thing I've learned is to use lots of descriptive words! Girls love that stuff! When they can get a mental picture in their heads while they read your messages, it affects them emotionally, which triggers those attraction switches.



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    Default Re: Good facebook opener for girl i don't really know?

    Quote Originally Posted by tmalonetn View Post
    I've used a similar style of message on POF & Match.
    With those sites, I've learned you have to sometimes dial the negs/cockiness back just a bit... but on FB, you can razz a little harder & it works OK.

    I'd try making a few variations of that & see which one(s) have the best response.

    Sometimes a couple little word changes can make a huge difference.

    The biggest thing I've learned is to use lots of descriptive words! Girls love that stuff! When they can get a mental picture in their heads while they read your messages, it affects them emotionally, which triggers those attraction switches.

    And if they don't respond, do you just let it go?

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    Default Re: Good facebook opener for girl i don't really know?

    Quote Originally Posted by DandyLion View Post
    And if they don't respond, do you just let it go?
    Usually.... I message sooo many girls anyway that a non-reply doesn't even really matter.

    Although......
    There is the exception. If the girls is flat out smokin hot, and hasn't replied back within 3-5 days, I'll send another message razzing her about not responding.

    The one style I had pretty good results with was a "Top Ten List"

    It was "The Top Ten reasons XXXXX never replied back"

    Then I listed 10 ridiculous, funny, smart-a$$ reasons like:
    "She forgot to pay her internet bill & service was cut off."

    "She was only looking at photos because, she doesn't actually know how to read"

    "She was disappointed that I DIDN'T have a 'shirtless/bathroom' pic in my profile.."


    Stuff like that.. Pretty much calling her out for ignoring my first message.... but in a playful way.

    It doesn't always work, but that one HAS gotten me more replies after sending it, than most other methods I've tried.



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    Default Re: Good facebook opener for girl i don't really know?

    use this:
    Well I thought about it for a second...do I
    want to be Mr. Funny haha and try to make
    you laugh right off the bat. Nah! That would
    make me seem to goofy. Do I want to be Mr.
    Rico Suave and try to woo you to death! Nah
    that would make me seem way too
    serious...since this whole online thing is
    decided within the first 4 lines of the convo!

    I think I'll go traditional and say...hi =)'
    If u think this is u're style
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
    _Xavier.

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    Default Re: Good facebook opener for girl i don't really know?

    Also, remember it's FB, not a dating site. You talking about her interest means you went through her profile and explored, which is a bit ioi. If you then say how her tastes are awesome, you IOI too much. It's a good method on okcupid and stuff, since it's the stuff you display to everyone, but FB is a different game

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    Default Re: Good facebook opener for girl i don't really know?

    This is all really good stuff. I'm going to try some of this ASAP.

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    Default Re: Good facebook opener for girl i don't really know?

    I was told a story about my mates mate adding random girls on Facebook. I wanted to try this one as well and it went as following:

    2 people started an event page on Facebook and got 20k+ attendants within a couple of days. I saw a lot of nice girls posting messages on this event page its wall. I thought "what the hell" and started messing around.

    I invited 3 random nice girls to be my FB friend. Two of them accepted the request, one didn't. I spent too much time before talking to the 2nd girl, so she removed me after 1 hour or something. Now the first girl was still in my friendlist and I wanted to give it a try.

    As she accepted it was me starting a convo. (The conversation was in Dutch, please bare in mind )
    Me: Hey, how are you doing?
    Me: Might be a stupid question, but could you please remind me where I know you from? :P
    She: No, because you added me.
    Me: Oh, crap. I'm going to kick someones ass tomorrow.
    Me: I think one of my mates messed around with my Facebook today.
    Me: I'm sorry, haha :P
    She: No problem at all! You couldn't help it.
    Me: Nice (Y)
    Me: *Started talking about the party etc. etc.*

    Now two weeks later the girl is still my FB friend. I don't really know what to talk about now, as she didn't respond on my messages last week.

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    Default Re: Good facebook opener for girl i don't really know?

    never apolgozie. ask her if she likes bacon

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    Default Re: Good facebook opener for girl i don't really know?

    Quote Originally Posted by Tanktop View Post
    never apolgozie. ask her if she likes bacon
    Haha, nice one.

    You mean I should ask her if she likes bacon to start a new convo now?


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