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Thread: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    I do have a question that I've been meaning to ask you for a while, T-mal. Lol.

    I like the direct approach you have such as: "I'll be at the Cellar at 7:07, come hang!"

    What do you respond if she tells you that she's busy or something? That's why I think it'd be a good idea to ask if she's free (while continuing the direct approach). Example is, "If you're free, I'll be at the Cellar at 7:07. Come by and hang!"

    Unless the point of all that is to tell her where you'll be, and that even if she doesn't swing by, you're still at the place having fun.
    Always be honest with women. That's the true meaning of a PUA.

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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    Cheers dude - much appreciated with the responses to my posts and all the advice - I seem to do well at initially hooking and attracting the girl but I'm noticing that after a bit of time they seem to lose interest and get away - which is fecking frustrating!!

    Especially the super hot girls!!

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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    If she's busy & says she can't come, then oh well. I'm going anyway.
    And I'll hook up with her another time.

    However; I've had several times where a girl said she couldn't do a certain time & asked about the next day.
    I said, "sorry, no can do"...
    Turns out, it was a mild sh!t test or she decided to figure out a way to be there, cause she showed.

    Sometimes you WILL be tested to see if you'll stand your ground.
    But I mainly do it just to express non-neediness.

    You can't get all butt-hurt though, if the girl can't make it!!


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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    One more quickie....

    If you want to see another example of direct, confident, "Alpha Texting" check out the exchange in this thread where I describe testing my "dog crap opener"

    The text exchange is a couple posts down in the thread, but read the whole post to set up the scene, so the texts make sense.



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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    I'd need the app link please!

    Thanks

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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    went on a date with a blonde HB8 on friday night - date went well we had good conversation a few laughs and a bit of fun - she even complimented me towards the end saying that its rare for a date to not have any awkward silences as the conversation seemed to flow, she even made me pinky promise that i would meet her on a night out later on this month.

    I was pretty cool, laid back and I didnt come across as needy in anyway - dropped her home - she did say she would invite me in but she had work in tne morning at which point I quickly discarded the idea and said something like "not on the first date we've only just met!"

    Played it cool and I didnt text her till the following evening I sent this:

    Me: Hope you didn't work to hard today! I'm currently stuffing my face with popcorn whilst relaxing with a movie!

    I didnt get a reply at all......so i just left it then this morning I dropped her this text:

    Me: Morning Princess Jasmine (this is reference to her favourite disney princess) I'm guessing the rest of your weekend was a bit of a come down after the amazing company you had on friday night!

    She replied.....

    HB: Hey sorry I completely forgot to reply saturday. I had a few drinks saturday and it ended up being a late one. How about u?


    OK....now how do I respond to this - honestly I'm a little annoyed she FORGOT to text me - that in my opinion is a shit excuse and suggests to me that I am completely unimportant - girls dont forget to text they use their phones all the goddamn time - i'm kinda thinking I go back with a bit of a pissed off text rather that pussy foot around her, after all I'm the man she should be biding for my time....

    how can i respond to this??

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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    Also I've got a question:

    How do I know if RFR is appropriately and how do I know if I shall stop it?

    Secondly, what can I think about my texting if she often replies nearly like RFR, but never starts texting?

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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    Sidewinder- I wouldn't give off a pissy vibe at all.
    The best thing to do would be to tease her about it. Razz her & make fun of her but keep The Vibe from being negative.

    I'd go with something like:
    "So little missy, you had drinks & didn't invite me? Shame on you... that's gonna earn you a spanking! :P"



    And Tow-
    Texting should feel natural with the timing. If it's convenient, reply back right away. If she's locked in & responding back immediately, stay with it for a bit.

    Then let her know you have things to do & you'll catch up later.

    I've also noticed that some girls rarely initiate with the first text. That's no big deal. It's OK to send the first one if she's replying back enthusiastically.



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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    Nice one!

    How long does it take for it to click to the point that you know how to deal with any situation correctly and know the right responses that are gonna keep her interested?

    I'm not a complete tool when it comes to girls, I know the normal concepts of how to act round girls, how to treat them and I don't tense up and get nervous so I'm not inexperienced at all with women - just inexperienced in the concepts of the game - my goal at the moment is to try to keep my natural personality and game but use these concepts and theories as added ammunition - I don't want to become a robot with canned routines - I'm a nice guy - I'm not an arsehole - so I get on with most people- but I think sometimes my natural game doesn't quite have the edge to enable me to get the amount of girls I probably should be getting!!

    What's the best/quickest way to get to the point where you just know what to do? I'm aware the simple answer to this would be to text and talk and meet as many girls as possible - but when you were first learning all of this was it just a matter of cracking onto as many birds as possible? Did you have to note down everything that worked and just use it over and over again??

    Surely there must have been times when you didn't know what the best response or the best thing to say to a girl at a particular point was, so how do you get over that? Is it just trial and error and a case of removing any concern you might have about losing that particular girl?

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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    I've gone way overboard & screwed up plenty of times & scared several girls away early on. But I first learned about the whole PUA stuff less than 2 years ago.

    But after reading a few things, something clicked & I realized the key is FUN! Girls like to be teased & razzed just like anyone else.... just like you do with your friends... but not as vulgar or hardcore.



    It takes practice to have snappy comebacks & comments on the fly, but when I was growing up, my friends & I all busted on each other all the time. So the quick thinking developed naturally.

    The best way to get good is to ask yourself; what would get a reaction out of a girl without being completely offensive or sounding like a total wuss?

    Never act out emotionally & blow up over text.
    If a girl aggravates you, keep calm & non-reactive, but still let her know if you're not happy.

    Basically choose your battles.
    In this case, forgetting to text one day?... don't make a big deal; out of it. But if it happens frequently, then state your opinion calmly & go from there.

    Always be in control of your emotions.



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