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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    Thank you, T-Mal.

    I asked, because sometimes we are in RFR and I miss the best time to stop and am left with a message which won't get a response. You know what I am referring to?^^

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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    Yeah...
    It's best to try cutting out before that happens.
    But if it does, just wait for a while. (Maybe the next day, if it's already afternoon/evening).

    Then when you re-initiate with a text, don't try to pick up where you left off. It's a whole new day, so create a fresh new vibe in your texts.


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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    T-Mal, can you hook me up with the link? I've using your tips from the the first post with success, but never got around to asking you for the link.

    Thanks!

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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    Had my first tinder match (I am from Europe there are not that much tinder user). Since I am corrently learning, I would like to hear your opinion on the following "conversation". She doesn't mean anything to me, so I am open to everything.

    Me (opener): Hi! Tell me, what makes you special? Why should I talk to you?
    Her: Are you alright? haha That's something I should ask YOU
    Me: Wow, someone's not fun? :P
    Her: Wow, someone's not getting that I pressed the wrong button? (kiss smiley)
    Me: Just excuses :P
    Her: I am cheerleader, I am arrogant, that are no excuses Look for someone on your level, by

    I have to say that I am overweight. But what could I try here and how can I flip it in general, if they say something like that?

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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    You were being too negative & rude.
    Instead, be playful & fun, while razzing her.

    Your first message was fine... but when she replied, you should have responded back with something like, "Touche' sassy pants, good point. But I asked you first. "

    It just takes practice to get good at finding humorous & interesting banter.

    Just always remember to make it FUN.




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    Oops. Atleast I was outcome independent

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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    UPDATE: She just texted me: Already found someone? (Arm flexing emoticon)

    Does this convay interest? Is this just her self amusment?
    This situation now makes me corious^^

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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    Next update (I am not contacting her, she just doesn't stop texting me):
    Her: Yeah, I know, on ground-water level aren't that many.

    As unexperienced I am, I am confused, but eager to learn!

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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    If you're interested in a girl & SHE is texting you, there's no reason on earth to freeze her out & go "no contact".

    When a girl initiates communication, she's expressing interest. That means you flirt & make things fun so that she'll want to get together.


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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    Yo! Ok a little update on the girl that i chatted to on tender then messaged her on FB - i went in with the approach but unfortunately I had no luck with that even though it seemed like a solid way to try and revoke a response! onto the next one!

    Been chatting to a girl i met on POF a few weeks ago - pretty early on I was getting a lot of IOIs and even started to initiate some sexual text messages to the point of her very nearly willing to sleep with me even before we met - I tried Push Pull techniques during these interactions so we would talk about sexual things then I would drop in the whole "but I don't sleep with girls on a first date" or "that's all great but I cant sleep with you, i need to make sure your not cazy! a guys got to look out for himself these days"

    Pretty much got the green light on this girl - I met her for a date went well she's quite cute - I didnt make a move on her during the date in anyway even though we had talked about sex quite a bit in texts - I did this because I wanted to keep her guessing - get her to question her self esteem, get her thinking "does he like me in person, or isn't he attracted to me?"

    During the date she kept trying to qualify herself - saying stuff like she was the most intelligent our of her friends, how patients at work (she's a nurse) have commented on how attractive she is - how she over heard a doctor talk about how he would wanna smash her back doors in etc etc ect - I just nodded and agreed negged her by saying that I dont think nurses outfits are flattering or attractive at all and how I've never noticed attractive nurses when I've ever been in hospital shit like that-

    after the date i totally calmed down on the texts - no sexual innuendoes - bit of flirting but not texting as frequently - idea again behind this was to attack the female's natural tendency to be insecure - so that she was thinking i was hot with her before the date I'm colder with her now - mess with her head.

    Anyways I dropped her a message saying: I was heading away snowboarding in two weeks - she replied can I come - I was like yeah sure if you can fit in my board bag along with my boots bindings and board your in - she said she was small enough to get in there - so i replied with something like your getting a free boarding trip, ive gotta lug you around in my bag what do i get? - she asked what do you want? - I said well you tell me whats on offer and i will see if its worth it - she replied how about a kiss? - I said a kiss? thats so lame you've lost your place in my bag - she said - nooo.....what about a BJ? - my reply ok thats a little better but it all depends if your any good at them - she said what do you think? so I said no idea but I will tell you after the weekend! (lol) her reply - how come? (and she said she was intelligent FFS) - I replied 7:34pm Saturday night, my place dominos pizza and a film - she proceeded to reply by saying I can't I'm busy! you should have asked me the other day!! sorry trouble!

    At this point I felt i needed to stay on top and reply to the rejection by making it out so that it doesn't bother me so I just replied - No Worries!

    basically what's the best way to reply to the rejection of a second date or meet even though this girl is totally giving me IOS's left right and centre she still rejected me! Can I follow up with the "No worries" text?


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