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Thread: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    Personally I would have given her more than one option of a day/time to meet, for that very reason, she may be busy.

    Either she's not interested or she is actually busy that day. I hope you took T-Mal's advice and flirted a bit first. It's never a bad idea to build a little extra connection before setting up a date, to up the investment and interest on her end.

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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    How much time have to spent flirting & building attraction?

    If you haven't really done that yet, don't push for a meet up. Instead, start being fun & making HER have fun; that will increase your success ratio.

    If you've done lots of flirting already the meetup should be easier to set. And I would text something like "Ohh, you're such a butthead! And predictable too. "

    The main objective is to get her responding positively & enthusiastically for a bit. Teasing, bantering, razzing...
    THEN, when you know she's having a great time & her mood is high, go for the meet up.




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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    Ah yeah. In hindsight, prolly shouldve asked her out earlier in the texts, felt her interest faded a bit later on. I got her to laugh and said a bunch of silly things so I covered that, just need to get a better rhythm or something going. Will try what you said thanks

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    Every girl is different, so you have to reach a point where you see the clues & indicators with each one.

    Some girls will click with you really fast & you can get her to meet up right away, while others will take longer to get there.

    I've purposely tried pushing too soon AND waiting for much longer than necessary, just to see what would happen. (Usually with girls who are a 6-7)

    Sometimes it just works out & they say yes... and sometimes they've asked ME to meet up when I dragged it on & on.

    But most of the time I got resistance if it's too soon, or they'd lose interest if I waited too long. But that also depended on how hard I was flirting with her.

    It's like microwaving popcorn...
    You have to pay attention, so that you know when things have reached maximum popping & it's time to dig in.




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    Yeah, that really seems to be the trick. Kept texting with here after she said she was busy and got good responses, long texts etc then. i asked her out again, she said she was busy the whole weekend so now i'm just gonna forget about her cause it seems she don't want to even though she's putting effort in. Either way she's gonna have to come to me

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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    I always keep several girls in my rotation when I'm gaming.
    That way you're not dependent on the interactions of one single girl.

    You don't feel "stuck" when one of them is flakey, or genuinely busy with life, or gone on vacation, or whatever the case is. You have other women you can chat with, cal & talk with, get together with... etc.

    Sometimes taking a step back from a girl get her attention & she'll start making more initiative. And sometimes, they just fade off.

    But don't let it bother you when it happens, because it IS normal.
    You can always replenish your social circle, so always keep that in mind.



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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    That rotation sure is a help, but I've got the problem, that I don't put enough effort into each one. One's always my favorite in which case I tend to get needy (I am working on this successfully) and outcome dependent.

    In the past I ended up with one uninterested or creeped out and two/three uninterested because I didn't show enough interest in them.

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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    Hi, guys. These few days, I have been texting this girl but she doesn't initiate or always give me short reply. I know I must have done something wrong in the conversation but I can't figure out what is it and how can I improve from there ?
    Here is the example of the texts :-

    Me : hey, babe. I know you were busy and all. so take good care of yourself alright. if not you're going to get sick again.#

    Girl : I'm so sober
    Girl : Freaking sleeping exhausted

    Me : I'm curious what you did on the weekend. And you're working today too ? What am I going to do you.

    Girl : ....Was busy for 2 weeks

    Me : Had your 2 weeks over already ?

    Girl: Nope. Going to second week

    Me : I wish the two week is going to end soon. At least you can have some rest by then.

    Girl : Yup..arrrrr

    Me : Text me when you got the time alright. I want to talk to you on the phone but I don't know what is the right time to do so.

    Girl : ooo

    Me : Okay...bye bye.

    I know there is a lot of noob mistakes here but I hope someone can correct my ways because I am here to learn. Thanks.

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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    Read the actual guide on page 1.

    Your whole texting interaction was boring & had nothing fun about it at all... You're trying to have a normal, fluffy conversation over text.

    I've done it too... way back when I was starting out & had no idea what I was doing. But the good news is, you can easily fix it.


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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    Hey Guys, this question is for T-Mal because I think he is great but it's also open to eberybody else.

    was texting with this girl the other night, I know her from volleyball. My question is how do I proceed to ask her out


    ME: Hey, we should go out for a drink soon .... We can get shit faced, drive to Mexico, and get arrested in Tijuana for stealing a burro .... Do you have a valid passport ????


    HER: Good timing... My self imposed drinking ban is over ;-) Mexico sounds good but let's skip the part about getting arrested!


    ME; Well I'm training for a Marathon in May so I guess my drinking ban will start soon so let's grab a drink before then ..... By the way, I've been in Tijuana jail cell .... It's not that bad




    HER: Hehe I'm not surprised to hear that! I completed my half marathon yesterday so I'm good whenever!


    ME: Good for you ..... I like my women to be able to run a ten minuet mile


    HER: I ran the Disney princess half marathon with my sisters in Florida... We dressed up and ran through Epcot and the Magic Kingdom




    ME: HA HA ...... Well I hope you didn't dress up as Goofy .......... so next Friday for drinks .... I'll shoot you an email or send a message via carrier pigeon .......have a good rest of the night, we'll talk soon


    HER: Ok sounds good... Give me shout! Thanks, you too!!



    So how do I ask her out next Friday without being BORING !!!!!


    THANKS GUYS !!!!


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