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Thread: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    You're off to a great start.

    So to keep that same fun vibe, here are a few examples.
    Just change 'em up to make them fit your situation, as well as give you ideas for coming up with your own new ones.


    “Craving pizza! Roll with me this Fri @ 8:13 you’ll love their hand-tossed crust!”

    “Sushi time... tomorrow 6:06 PM. you GOTTA try the yellowfin roll!! ”

    “Hey my little dancin queen, new club opening tomorrow. Get your boogie shoes ready - Pick u up at 7:33 =)”

    “Hey mamacita, margaritas Sat nite. Come to my place & we’ll roll @ 7:27 adios mi amiga!”

    “Tomorrow - Hot, 95 & sunny… I’ll be poolside with a cold drink. Bring your sunscreen! “

    “Aloha little mermaid, get your tail-fin ready cuz It’s beach time! I’ll get u @ 1:02”


    You get the idea.

    It's not difficult at all.
    Just have fun with it & you'll be totally golden!



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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    THANKS A LOT BROTHER .... always appreciate your words of wisdom !!!!!

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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    You're welcome, my friend.


    It just takes a little practice... then you start coming up with stuff on the fly without thinking about it.

    I grew up watching lots of comedy movies & shows... and repeating the lines in real life situations with my friends. Then I started making up my own silly stuff.

    Fast forward to a couple years ago... and I realized I could use the same techniques over text & email.

    It's all about being fun.. as well as different from any other guy that may be texting her.


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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    Hey guys (and T-mal especially!) this really is an awesome thread which helped me a lot, though it misses advice for a phase I'm in now..

    shit test/Recovery
    So, I had well enough text game, set up a date, kiss-closed and chilled in my car where she told me she was also seeing another guy. I didn't make a problem out of it since according to her description he was disqualifying himself already.
    A week later she suddenly became distant because she told the other guy about our date, he felt hurt, she felt guilty and broke it off with him. At the same time though she seemed to have changed her good memory of me into a bad one.
    Today I reinitiated after her flaking and conversation went like this:
    ME: You are all part of a conspiracy ha
    HER: Who is 'you'?
    ME: Blondieees, you all say you taste like strawberry cheesecake!
    HER: O well good luck with the next one

    What do I possibly reply to this?! I've considered:
    - 'Oh but we're not done playing yet'
    - 'Thanks, but I'll take the spider (her only pet, implying I agree to 'divorce')
    but none of those feels quite right. I would really appreciate some advice

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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    Be bold & playful...

    Something like:
    "Next one? Hell! I'm thinking brunette's are a safer choice. BUT, I kinda like your adventurous spirit, so I'm torn. "

    You can't wuss out & get all lame on her at this stage. You're gonna have to ramp it up a bit & take a few calculated risks.



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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    Quote Originally Posted by Tow View Post
    That rotation sure is a help, but I've got the problem, that I don't put enough effort into each one. One's always my favorite in which case I tend to get needy (I am working on this successfully) and outcome dependent.

    In the past I ended up with one uninterested or creeped out and two/three uninterested because I didn't show enough interest in them.
    I end up with favorites too...
    And some of them start dropping off here & there. It just happens.

    But MY main goal is to narrow them down so that I can find THE ONE I like best... the one who matches my personality & we just click better than others.

    The "getting needy" thing takes time & experience to get out of that habit. But the more you keep rolling along, the better you'll get & the easier it will become.

    It's okay to WANT an outcome... but just don't RELY on it. There's a difference there.


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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    Here's a new little playful text I sent to a girl I'm currently chatting with & gaming.

    We're actually meeting up this Saturday for the first time and having margaritas.

    Conversations have reached explicit sexual content... but I decided to REALLY build the sexual Tension by saying there should be no sex on the first date.

    Then I sent this text: "Your hands are to remain above my waist at all times... especially while we're making out because, I'm easily influenced."

    Her reply: "Hands? OK. What about my mouth? "

    Needless to say, it's going to be an interesting Saturday.


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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    “Hey my little dancin queen, new club opening tomorrow. Get your boogie shoes ready - Pick u up at 7:33 =)”

    “Aloha little mermaid, get your tail-fin ready cuz It’s beach time! I’ll get u @ 1:02”



    This is really a great post. But the only problem when I used these texts is that they are very time specific. What if the girl has other plans at the same time I suggested. I think it will be better to check what's her schedule look like first before making a suggestion. But my question how would I check with her about her free time without comig across as too needy (by adjusting my time to work with her....)

    second, a girl told me "haha that's very time specific. Unfortunately, I'll be at work at that time", so how would I follow up after the girl has declined my offer

    Thank you

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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    Quote Originally Posted by fredyyy View Post
    “Hey my little dancin queen, new club opening tomorrow. Get your boogie shoes ready - Pick u up at 7:33 =)”

    “Aloha little mermaid, get your tail-fin ready cuz It’s beach time! I’ll get u @ 1:02”



    This is really a great post. But the only problem when I used these texts is that they are very time specific. What if the girl has other plans at the same time I suggested. I think it will be better to check what's her schedule look like first before making a suggestion. But my question how would I check with her about her free time without comig across as too needy (by adjusting my time to work with her....)

    second, a girl told me "haha that's very time specific. Unfortunately, I'll be at work at that time", so how would I follow up after the girl has declined my offer

    Thank you
    You chat with her & get to know a little bit about her routines, likes & schedules BEFORE you "ask her out".

    You adjust the time accordingly.
    And if she can't make it? So what...

    Keep her on the backburner & try again another time. But you never want to go for the meetup until you build attraction. THAT is the key.

    Because then, she's gonna make an effort to go out with you.


    My point about using these "odd times" was to show you how to stand out from regular chumps who would say "how about 6:00 or 6:30?"

    And you're never gonna have 100% success. PERIOD.
    You just have to pay attention for clues & cues from the girl.

    Girls talk ALL THE TIME.
    Listen to what she says... chances are she'll just tell you her schedule for the next 3 months in regular conversation; because girls do that,

    "So, next Tuesday Lisa & I are getting our nails done at noon...blah blah blah... then on Wed. I'm going to dinner with Erica... blah blah blah... Thursday I'm just gonna be home because everyone is working or has a to study for a test... blah blah blah... ... Friday gonna be awesome cause a bunch of us are going to the movies! I can't wait! I heard it's really good!..." etc.

    That's when you know Thurs night she's free.

    Or you could bring up later Tuesday afternoon because, she "has to show you her nails! So come hang with me at xxxx. I'll be there at 4:02"

    If she asks "why 4:02?"
    Because 4:00 is too early!



    Using the odd time gives you an automatic playful response if she brings it up & questions it.

    Use stuff like that to your advantage!! It's like a game of chess, or pool... plan your next move & set her up so that you can predict HER next move.



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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    haha. Thanks a lot T-mal. What you said make total sense. I should pay more attention to the details.

    But as for now, with this particular girl, I don't see this girl anymore to know what's her schedule (we were in the same class, but now it's over), All I know is that we have final exam together in two weeks. And now since I got my offer declined...
    how do you keep up the conversation through text before asking her out again. Because I remember you suggested not to use texts as a conversation tool...or do you suggest ignoring her maybe until next week...

    also I'm going to a crazy party tonight, so do you mention that to her to show her that you're having a fun life

    Sorry for asking a lot. But you're really the most experienced guy and I like your style


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