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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    Just be playful & fun.
    I constantly send little "ping" texts to different girls... even if I haven't "spoken" to them in weeks or months. (In one case it was over a year).

    But because my texting style is soooo different from every other guy texting her, she immediately knew it was me... even though I texted her from a new phone number she didn't have and I never said my name.

    When you're fun & original, girls will NOT forget you.


    I use texting for flirting & setting the meet up... but especially for flirting.

    A lot of times, I'm pretty random & spontaneous with my texts.
    I'll send things like:

    "I just saw a little girl push her brother down & take his toy... made me think of you. "

    "Hey, if you were me, would you choose pizza or tacos for dinner tonight?"

    "Hey Spunky-Pants, need your help! Do bow-ties go okay with a welding mask?"

    "I was just thinkin... if you were here right now I would totally buy you this puppy. He's totes adorbs!!"


    Stuff like that will almost always get a reply, because it's most likely going to put a smile on her face. (And probably make her laugh)

    And it's THAT kind of stuff that will subconsciously cause her to Anchor feelings of fun & playfulness to you.

    The thing is, you don't have to be having pizza or tacos...
    There doesn't have to be a little girl pushing her brother...
    You don't need to have a bow-tie or a welding mask...
    There doesn't have to be a puppy anywhere near you...

    All you're doing is triggering a funny visual image in her mind & having fun... which she'll associate with you.

    Just do stuff like that regularly & pretty soon she'll be blowing up your phone & practically begging you to meet up with her.



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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    Thank a lot bro I will try to experiment and see what works!

    keep it up man

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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    It just takes practice... The more you experiment with ideas, the more experience you'll attain.

    Just pay attention to what works for you & what doesn't... then scrap the stuff that bombs & work with the things that are getting the best results.



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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    so, I want to ask a girl out, and I have no idea how's her schedule look like this weekend. So, you suggest to say something like: (i know she's not into gong to

    "let's roll this weekend. it's ice cream season ...What's your schedule looking like"

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    "there is always something confuse me about you...." then when she asks what? I say: "it's more fun to ask it in person. What are you up to this weekend"

    Are these good? or you suggest to say something different. I'm not the best at all in texting, and that's why I'm checking with you

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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    Shoot her some playful texts about nothing first... Just to warm her up & get her responding.

    Or use something to make her start agreeing / complying with you.
    Like:
    "OK, I've decided I'm gonna smuggle myself in a suitcase headed for Hawaii... wanna come? "

    Girls almost always say YES because it's playful & totally unrealistic. But it's FUN, and gets her in the Mindset of going along with whatever you suggest to her... making it easier to get a "yes" when you go for an actual meet up.

    But when she says YES to the Hawaii idea, your next text should be equally playful, but geared more towards being together for an activity...
    Somethoing like this:

    "Sweet! We're gonna set up a hut on the beach & sell T-shirts. You'll be the model & we'll make MILLIONS! "

    She's most likely gonna buy into the role-playing here... which makes her like putty in your hands.

    Then, after a couple more fun texts about "Hawaii" and all the fun it would be, you switch gears & hit her with:

    "Ok, we totally need to grab ice cream this weekend! Let me know your schedule while I check mine to see what I have open. Then we can work out the details for our Hawaiian getaway. "
    (Or something to that effect.)
    You can also swap "ice cream" for coffee, or drinks, or pizza etc...


    Again, the key to getting a YES, is to make her have fun first.




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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    That's genius. I never thought of that. I will definitely try it haha thanks a lot bro

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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    would you run texts on girls you bagged already.thanks

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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    Yes!
    I never stop gaming a girl.

    The things you do that get the girl in the first place, are the things that attracted her to you... so why quit making her attracted?

    After a while, like if you get into a long-term relationship, you're probably not gonna keep being quite as witty. But I would still recommend staying away from falling back into the habit of sending boring texts.

    So for me, I ALWAYS try to incorporate something playful & unique into my texts... even after I've slept with a girl, or in a relationship with her.




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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    I have a question about online dating...

    so, I did your advice for the first message. I read her profile. then I analyzed her character and made some assumption about her and messaged her. She responded to me "holy shit, you're good" with no more details. So, how do you suggest to continue the conversation after this. I don't want to say "how's your day going?" because that's boring. No? what do you think?

    Thank you in advance...

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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    Keep up the bold, confident vibe & take the lead.

    It's sometimes tough to think of what to say after a short reply like that... but keep it playful.

    I would probably go with something like "I can be... but I must say your enthusiastic reply is quite refreshing. It's not often a girl will blurt out "holy shit" to a complete stranger. "

    It's basically a playful tease on her reply & use of the 4-letter word. But mixed with the compliment on her enthusiasm..

    A classic example of using a Push-Pull.




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