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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    hahahha man you're good! Thanks a lot

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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    do you do Push-Pull in texts T-mal,

    I know this one: Me: How tall are you. Her: 5'7. Me: I don't date girls taller than 5'3 usually, but I'll make an exception for yo this time

    do you have some examples I could borrow lol

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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    Totally!
    Here are a couple examples of actual interactions I've had.

    A girl texted me something really funny, so I replied back with:
    "OMG! That's freakin' brilliant! But, you made me spit Mtn Dew out my nose... I hate you now."

    Another girl told me she doesn't like raw oysters... So my reply was:
    "You're pretty cute & stuff.. but we totally can't be friends anymore. You're waaaaay too weird! "

    And the same "oyster girl" told me she stubbed her toe earlier in the day. Sooooo....
    "I thought you were cool... but it turns out you're just a big ol' klutz! I don't think I can be seen in public with you.. "

    Pretty much any situation can be used in the same manner. It just takes a little practice to get in the groove, and then it starts to become more natural & you don't even really have to think about it... iit just flows.






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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    lol Thanks a lot man! These are good examples I'll try to practice more

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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    T-mal,

    first of all thank you I got a date using your techniques, but still there are a lot to learn. Here are couple questions that I encountered recently, and I would like to get your opinion if you don't mind:

    1) So a girl hinted to me while we were talking that she's free on saturday during night. I paid attention to that as you told me However, when I texted her. this what happen:

    Me:get ready it's beer time I'll pick you up satruday at 9:23.
    Her: I can't I have work this weekend. I said:
    Me: I just want to be your knight in the shining armor.
    she said : aww xo.
    so what do you suggest me to respond to this? without coming too pushy or too needy.


    2)This was from online dating. How do you respond to: Sorry I don't give out my number.

    3)I sent a message that will make the girl respond to know what's up as you suggested,
    A girl from online dating website.

    Me: I have a question about you...I'm confused
    Her: It's ok a lot of guys get confused about their sexuality

    I'm thinking to say: "That's a valid question..but pfft not me and that wasn't my question"

    Is that good one or you suggest something better? (and the question I had in mind was how come you go to vegas if we are during finals week (she go to my shcool).


    Thank you and sorry for the long reply. But I hope everyone learn from what I'm going through.

    Cheers

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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    You may be rushing a bit with trying to set the meetup. Make sure you've built enough attraction & comfort before inviting a girl out.

    When she says she can't make it, the best response is something like:
    "That's a bummer... but I'll be sure to have one for you then. "

    Playful, non-needy yet teasing her a bit.

    When a girl says she doesn't give out her number, that's also an indicator you're asking just a bit too soon.
    But the best way to deal with that is to just move on to something else like you never even noticed her response... and then go for the number later.

    OR to say something like "Neither do I. I've had plenty of stalkers & crazy people blowing up my phone already... I don't need another one. "

    And the girl who said "It's ok a lot of guys get confused about their sexuality" is giving you a shit test. That's all. It's a sarcastic bit of humor... so don't take it the wrong way.

    Don't react like "Oh, not me!"
    It will give off a vibe that you're not actually comfortable with women & not used to dealing with shit tests.

    Instead, follow her lead & play along with the joke a bit. Then take control of the frame by making a little poke back at her.

    Examples would be:

    "Wow! Did you really go there? You just wait little missy! I can tell you're gonna be trouble..."

    "Touche'! Well played sassy-pants! It's not often a girl will make a good crack like that so soon. "

    "Yeah... I was kinda wondering if you'd help me make sure I'm not gay.... Dork! I about spit Mtn Dew out my nose, thank you very much! "

    "OMG! You're like a nut wrapped up in a goofball & covered in crazy sauce! I love it! "



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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    "You may be rushing a bit with trying to set the meetup. Make sure you've built enough attraction & Comfort before inviting a girl out".

    True that's what I felt after I asked her. That was the lesson for me from that interaction.

    "Don't react like "Oh, not me!"
    It will give off a vibe that you're not actually comfortable with women & not used to dealing with shit tests."

    I'm glad you warned me about this one because that what I was thinking to type her lol But the idea about shit test is all new to me. I need to start recognizing them whenever a girl throw a shit test on me!

    and those lines were HILARIOUS man!!

    Thanks a lot!!!!

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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    The more tests you get, the better you'll become at recognizing them & learning how to deal with them.

    Also, remember that anytime you encounter resistance, that's a clue that you haven't built up enough attraction &/or comfort.


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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    yeah I'll listen to what my guts tell me about the girl before I ask any girl out from now on

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    Default Re: Texting do's & don'ts.. the "Conversational Bible"

    Wow great, nice guide, sometimes the text game could be a bit odd
    Thanks for posting this, now at least i can follow some steps!


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